bones1 Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 LOL.. Asking out a single woman you think is cool seems pretty normal and balanced to me, especially if just in a recreational group. What seems unnatural is shunning real advances, and isolating oneself behind a computer to find dates. Just my opinion.
Trialbyfire Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 What's also not cool, is believing that every single person is always on the make. It's really, really okay to have a life beyond finding your soulmate...LMAO!!
SugarKiss Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 LOL.. Asking out a single woman you think is cool seems pretty normal and balanced to me, especially if just in a recreational group. What seems unnatural is shunning real advances, and isolating oneself behind a computer to find dates. Just my opinion. Going on an on and on and on trying to find the fifth dimension of why a woman said no when asked out by man that quite frankly she prob has 0 romantic interest in, is also not balanced or cool. if you can't take rejection I say don't ask someone out.
bones1 Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 Ok.. So she prefers to meet mountain biking men online, instead of a mountain biking group she joined, where she could meet them in person and get to know them. I just dont buy it.
Trialbyfire Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 Are you 100% certain that mountain biking and mountain biking men within the same interest groups were her sole criteria for her online mate selection?
SugarKiss Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 Ok.. So she prefers to meet mountain biking men online, instead of a mountain biking group she joined, where she could meet them in person and get to know them. I just dont buy it. she is not attracted to any of the men in her group, do you buy that?
Author HiItsMe Posted July 8, 2008 Author Posted July 8, 2008 Ok.. So she prefers to meet mountain biking men online, instead of a mountain biking group she joined, where she could meet them in person and get to know them. I just dont buy it. Yeah, there's about over 200 members to the Mtn/Trail biking group, I just don't buy it either.
bones1 Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 I know... As if all 200 members are just SO overly concerned about what happens in her love life, that she could never return if they broke up or a first date didnt go well
D-Jam Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 I think with many who decide to do the meetup and will not date members of the group, I think it could be either a) She just isn't into anyone there and uses the "policy" as an excuse to reject everyone. or b) She fears dating someone, having it go sour, and thus now having drama in her group. So the mountain biker suddenly shows up, finds the guy who took things personally, and thus can't have fun in the group because of drama. I think when it's a group that labels itself as s singles thing, then people should be open to dating, but some meetups are more about the activity than dating. My suggestion, if you want to meet single women, then join those groups that are about meeting single people. If you go on an activity like the mountain biking, then go, have fun, and let things come naturally. If you saw no interest out of said woman in the activity, seeing her on a dating site won't mean you have a chance.
Dark-N-Romantic Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 Maybe she's a lesbian and doesn't feel like telling anyone. Just to add a new level to the mix. DNR
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