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I've been with my girlfriend for 2 months, I've been thinking about the whole love thing... I don't think I've ever been there but maybe I'm on my way now...but I don't want to say anything yet because its going great...btw I'm 23 she is 20.

-She is a good person, tries to be good to everyone... even people who aren't to her.

-She tries to be positive even when the **** hits the fan for her.

-She is understanding about my time and I am about hers, I like to see her whenever I can but we both know we have jobs and school and there haven't been any issues. We usually see each other on weekends.

-I encourage her to study and go to class even if she would rather be with me, I want her to do good.

-I think about her almost all the time and I know she is in the same boat, we talk every day, she makes the calls.

-She is honest even if its something that would make her look bad... but those things don't make me think any less of her.. maybe even more because she put herself out there and told me. But she always worries a lot what I will think.

-I feel more and more comfortable around her every time I see her, and the same with her family.

-She has her faults but I can look past them.

-Everything is just good, but I'm just not sure because you always hear about couples getting in fights and then if they get over it they are closer. But there haven't been any fights, or problems, its mostly just all good... so its almost like I'm just waiting for a fight to see what would happen but I don't see any reason why we would get into one.

-She trusts me, she was cheated on before, but isn't jealous with me and trusts that I wouldn't do that to her, and I definitely wouldn't.

-And last but not least, she is a beautiful girl.

 

So I just wonder what anyone thinks of my thoughts, is it realistic to feel all this at 2 months? Is it too good to be true? I don't know what to think I've never been here before. I'm pretty careful what I say to her as far as my affection is concerned, because I don't want to smother her and it seems like at my and her age relationships can end at any moment. I've tried not to become too attached but I suppose eventually there is a point where you have to let that go if the relationship is to grow. I think thats where I'm at, but for me its no easy thing letting her know how I feel.

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