Brady_to_Moss Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 I am working about 40 hours a week now that its summer and i am always tired and never want to go out....if i dont go out i am never going to meet that special girl if shes out there... I just feel like i need to wait until i get back to college in order to try and get a girl..is this a good plan? I would love a girl to talk to and do fun stuff with but its so hard to find someone when i am dead after work. I just feel so alone with out a signifigant other and see some of my friends having great summers with their loved ones going to beaches and parties.
KinAZ Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 Remember when you asked if we find love when we're not looking for it? Well, maybe if you worry more about work and less about meeting that special someone, she might just bump into you.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted July 6, 2008 Author Posted July 6, 2008 Remember when you asked if we find love when we're not looking for it? Well, maybe if you worry more about work and less about meeting that special someone, she might just bump into you. I would rather worry bout the upcoming Patriots season than work haha but i get what your saying
D-Lish Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 I think it's ok to relax on your downtime and enjoy being single. If you're still in college, why be in a hurry to have a gf? There's plenty of time for that later. I think it'll just happen when it happens! Work is probably a priority for you at this point in time, nothing wrong with that. I think you should make sure you get out and have some fun this summer though.
Dark-N-Romantic Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 I have always had an excuse as too why I was not dating. Too busy, I didn't know she liked me (we most of that is true), I am not handsome enough, no woman wants a man without a job (which is a lie, I see too many losers who mooch off of these women and they put up with it knowing these guys aren't out there looking for work), I'm not that interesting, etc. You have too find out how much of what you feel is true and how much of it is a copout to soothe your ego. Are things really going to change once you start back at school? With all the studying and the classes and the homework. Maybe what you need is to find some good friends who might help you out in the dating field, especially if your own tactics aren't working. Or maybe you have to try to expand your dating pool. Or if you haven't been doing anything... GET OFF YOUR BUTT AND START TAKING AN ACTIVE PART IN YOUR DATING LIFE! DNR And no, this waiting for a woman to recognize you while your single does not always work. And pretending your happy with being single is NOT the way to go. Its like telling someone who is hungry to be happy with water. Or someone who has a headache to think about something else... The mind, body, emotions, and spirit wants what it wants and nothing is going to overshadow that. But, you DO find appreciation with what you already have and be grateful why trying to achieve your over all goal. To find a nice girl to kick it with.
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