just-a-girl Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 This is so frustrating I have been talking to this guy for a few weeks we met on the net. It seemed like we were pretty into one another and were getting ready to go out when all of the sudden nothing! He does not call, email, text, anything it drives me nuts!! I have not heard from him in a few days (nor he from I) and I just don't get it. I am not some crazy stalker chick I let the guy lead the calling and what not when we would talked we always had fun, laughed, joked etc. I don't understand what happened? If you have any idea or simply want to whine with me feel free!!!
theobserver Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 Well it's the 21st century dear, one for all you know he could be hurt or dead very unlikely but just throwing it out there. He might have a girlfriend, he might have other online potentials and you've drawn the short straw. His pc might have died there can be a vast amount of reasons. However listen don't live by this old rule of he has to contact me BS, if you like him and he is a decent guy for God's sake just call him and see what's going on. Don't grovel and stamp your feet you're not the Queen. If it turns out he's had good reasons for not contacting cool , if it turns out he's just not interested in you then oh well you had good moments dwell on it for a day then move on plenty of fish out there as they say and there is billions. Just remember he doesn't really owe you anything you're not dating and online or not doesn't seem you've made an online commitment til we meet type of deal yet so cool down . Chin Up.
D-Lish Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 I think some people like to play the game with online dating, but fall short when it comes to progressing to a meeting. I've talked to so many people and added them to my msn, but never met them. It often ends up that someone new pops up or I just get nervous about meeting them- so we drift apart. One thing to keep in mind is that this isn't personal- it's not rejection when you have never met!!
Author just-a-girl Posted July 6, 2008 Author Posted July 6, 2008 I did call him too but it got to the point where it seemed like I was doing the majority of it so I sat back. Your right it really is not that big of a deal but I am a curious person so mystery drives me nuts. Eh I have certainly lived through worse.
Dark-N-Romantic Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 There are a lot of things that could be going on. But, no sense on dwelling on it... Move on an let it go or it will affect you... You should read my post I made under yours in the "Worst Date Ever" thread. I think it will enlighten you about some of the internet people. However, on the same token... This does not mean internet or long distant relationships are bad... One will never know what the future could hold... So, if you run into a lot of toads and frogs online or in life before you meet your prince... Count it off as an experience well worth it. DNR
Shygirl15 Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 Did you sleep with him on the first date/meeting? Don't think they've met yet. OP, it has happened a few times to me, and I also did that a couple of times to guys online. When somebody picks up my interest I simply drop others. Move on.
Author just-a-girl Posted July 7, 2008 Author Posted July 7, 2008 Did you sleep with him on the first date/meeting? NO! Not my style!!! Second date is the rule ( I am kidding!!) We did not meet I am over it now. I had to have my temper-tantrum first LOL!
lemony fresh Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 I'm sorry. That really sucks. He probably met someone else online. Anyway, some virtual Haagen-Daaz to you.
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