Chrome Barracuda Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 Okay fine I must have overlooked that lil tidbit. but check it why does it have to be a MM? She has 5 kids and not even divorced yet but introducing her kids to a married man she's having an affair with??? Come on, where's the morals and ethics? Those kids deserve better you know. She's showing them a bad example. outta the frying pan and into the fire.
Lookingforward Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 Okay fine I must have overlooked that lil tidbit. but check it why does it have to be a MM? She has 5 kids and not even divorced yet but introducing her kids to a married man she's having an affair with??? Come on, where's the morals and ethics? Those kids deserve better you know. She's showing them a bad example. outta the frying pan and into the fire. well....to quote myself, as I said earlier -----Bottom line...you and he are at different points with your Ms - you have separated and filed for D, he isn't even separated yet, and may never be.----
Chrome Barracuda Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 well....to quote myself, as I said earlier -----Bottom line...you and he are at different points with your Ms - you have separated and filed for D, he isn't even separated yet, and may never be.---- Damn skippy!!!!
Author isavelives2 Posted July 7, 2008 Author Posted July 7, 2008 I agree with some that my situation seems rediculous, and perhaps it is. I was seperated for 2 yrs and had filed for divorce BEFORE I ever met MM. My divorce will be completely done in 7 weeks. I have reestablished my life, and for 2 yrs dedicated my life to my children (who live with me 3 days and week and their father 4), I didn't let anyone into my life nor my childrens lives for 2 yrs. When I met MM, we were just friends, he would stop by the house after work and my 3 girls would be there. We would all talk and play games, he would help my 12 yr old with her homework..... he was a great influence to them. Then when things started changing between us and he was over more, of course the kids got to know him. We would all go for walks in the park together and mess around. So my children knew him before we were involved with each other. My children got to see someone who trully treated me like gold. He would hug me, hold my hand, and just show me "love", something they never saw their father do. He showed me love, and respect as well as showed them respect. I know personally that he is having a very hard time in his marriage, and I do know that he wants out and has been talking to his W about it for quite some time. I have been there for some of the conversations on the phone, and have just tried to support him and the choices he has to make. I knew I couldn't do it for him, so I just supported him. I am giving him 3 months (but not together) to get his things straightened out, and I talked to him last night about it. I am not sure what happened last night, but he has text me all night (literally 11pm, 4am, 5am,6am,7am) .... he called off work today because he said "he needs to deal with issues at home, and get his head clear". He says his head is spinning and he needs to regroup. I am just backing off and seeing what happens. Some of you are very right in saying that I want to end the A, but not the R. I have always stayed friends with the guys I dated...... my very best friend in the world is one of my ex's ...... I would never want to give up the friendship we have because we both made a bad judgement. I am trying to make this "right" as much as I can at this moment, and am getting through this 1 day at a time.
Lookingforward Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 I agree with some that my situation seems rediculous, and perhaps it is. I was seperated for 2 yrs and had filed for divorce BEFORE I ever met MM. My divorce will be completely done in 7 weeks. I have reestablished my life, and for 2 yrs dedicated my life to my children (who live with me 3 days and week and their father 4), I didn't let anyone into my life nor my childrens lives for 2 yrs. When I met MM, we were just friends, he would stop by the house after work and my 3 girls would be there. We would all talk and play games, he would help my 12 yr old with her homework..... he was a great influence to them. Then when things started changing between us and he was over more, of course the kids got to know him. We would all go for walks in the park together and mess around. So my children knew him before we were involved with each other. My children got to see someone who trully treated me like gold. He would hug me, hold my hand, and just show me "love", something they never saw their father do. He showed me love, and respect as well as showed them respect. I know personally that he is having a very hard time in his marriage, and I do know that he wants out and has been talking to his W about it for quite some time. I have been there for some of the conversations on the phone, and have just tried to support him and the choices he has to make. I knew I couldn't do it for him, so I just supported him. I am giving him 3 months (but not together) to get his things straightened out, and I talked to him last night about it. I am not sure what happened last night, but he has text me all night (literally 11pm, 4am, 5am,6am,7am) .... he called off work today because he said "he needs to deal with issues at home, and get his head clear". He says his head is spinning and he needs to regroup. I am just backing off and seeing what happens. Some of you are very right in saying that I want to end the A, but not the R. I have always stayed friends with the guys I dated...... my very best friend in the world is one of my ex's ...... I would never want to give up the friendship we have because we both made a bad judgement. I am trying to make this "right" as much as I can at this moment, and am getting through this 1 day at a time. Isave...I was separated 5 years and was waiting on my D to become final, and met my exsMM the same week he was physically moving out. He was my friend first too, but a few months down the line he decided to move back for "the kids" and I lost my friend as well as my love..... Just a warning.
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