Author littletoes Posted July 10, 2008 Author Posted July 10, 2008 Thanks for trying to cheer me up. its been working to be honest. Well Still calling him like a loser Ive been doing this 4 the 3 days now and he would sometimes answer now nothing at all. He never followed through with his call not to mention I feel like IM a broken record. I called his mom LOLOLOLO. I told her that I was sorry for bothering her and I was wondering if she could tell me if her son is home and she told me that he went out. She [COLOR=green][FONT=serif]didn't[/FONT][/COLOR] sound mad at me or anything I was nice being polite. God help me. Please. I cant [COLOR=green][FONT=serif]believe[/FONT][/COLOR] IM going through the same CRAP. GOD. He did this too me on Tuesday well on [COLOR=green][FONT=serif]Tuesday[/FONT][/COLOR] he [COLOR=green][FONT=serif]answered[/FONT][/COLOR] in the morning and then the rest of the day he [COLOR=green][FONT=serif]didnt[/FONT][/COLOR] call me [COLOR=green][FONT=serif]until[/FONT][/COLOR] 12 hours later. Maybe hes out clearing his head. I don't know cause IM not getting any calls here. I need to stop this nonsense and just stop calling once and for all. Ive done it b 4 and I could do it again. Gosh Its so hot here and I'm not in the mood to eat.
Author littletoes Posted July 10, 2008 Author Posted July 10, 2008 Thanks for trying to cheer me up. its been working to be honest. Well Still calling him like a loser Ive been doing this 4 the 3 days now and he would sometimes answer now nothing at all. He never followed through with his call not to mention I feel like IM a broken record. I called his mom LOLOLOLO. I told her that I was sorry for bothering her and I was wondering if she could tell me if her son is home and she told me that he went out. She didn't sound mad at me or anything I was nice being polite. God help me. Please. I cant believe IM going through the same CRAP. GOD. He did this too me on Tuesday well on Tuesday he answered in the morning and then the rest of the day he didnt call me until 12 hours later. Maybe hes out clearing his head. I don't know cause IM not getting any calls here. I need to stop this nonsense and just stop calling once and for all. Ive done it b 4 and I could do it again. Gosh Its so hot here and I'm not in the mood to eat.
luvmy2ns Posted July 10, 2008 Posted July 10, 2008 Gosh Its so hot here and I'm not in the mood to eat. Is there somewhere you could go for a nice, refreshing dip in a pool or something? Then stop on the way home and pick up something good for dinner so you don't have to cook and heat up the house. Pick up a good DVD - a great comedy so you can laugh and forget your troubles for a couple hours.
Author littletoes Posted July 10, 2008 Author Posted July 10, 2008 Hey there. I decided to order some subs something healthy I guess. There is no pool here. I think im just going to take a dip in the bathtub and have a nice bath and just relax then. I'm going for a brisk walk outside and tomorrow IM going to go to the furniture store and buy some furniture. Its retail therapy works all the time. I'm also going 2 repaint my toenails my self and try and perk me up. Obivious hes up to something better. Still no calls. Whats ure name???????
luvmy2ns Posted July 10, 2008 Posted July 10, 2008 You've got mail. lol That's good. The pedicure. Avon makes this killer little battery operated thingy that comes with a metal disc and a pumice stone disc and a brush for only $7.99. You can get all the callouses off your feet in a jiffy with the metal disc. Then you soak 'em for awhile, then use the pumice attachment to finish up. It makes your feet soooo smooth! Then you smooth on some lotion, and you're all set! Paint those littletoes, and your feet will be soft and super sexy for sandals. And no - I am NOT an Avon lady!
Author littletoes Posted July 10, 2008 Author Posted July 10, 2008 U are 2 cute. I almost did think that u were a sales rep of some sort. Just kidding. I will look for that device it sounds amazing. I hope u have a good one and I will keep posting. Thanks for the golden advice. J
Touche Posted July 10, 2008 Posted July 10, 2008 Hi Little Toes, I think it's funny that you're name is Little Toes and you're talking about pedicures! (Ok, well I'm easily amused.) I just wanted to say that the more you call him the more you're going to push him away. But to be honest, it sounds like he's trying to break up with you. You should let him go. You have no future with this Mama's Boy. Good luck. Come here and post the next time you feel like calling him, ok?
Author littletoes Posted July 10, 2008 Author Posted July 10, 2008 Hey there thanks for getting back to me. I Know the mroe I call him the more I push him away. I've let him go before ans he came back. I Know hes a big time mamas boy and he will always be I cant change that. Any hoots I just got back in the house from my stroll. It felt good. I'll be also taking care of my little toes hehe. I still have yet to hear from him and hes really wanting me to leave him alone and I just dont give up some times. I think Ill give up on him 2 night and on the weekends. Any way. IM sick of feeling sorry for myself.
Touche Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 Hey there thanks for getting back to me. I Know the mroe I call him the more I push him away. I've let him go before ans he came back. I Know hes a big time mamas boy and he will always be I cant change that. Any hoots I just got back in the house from my stroll. It felt good. I'll be also taking care of my little toes hehe. I still have yet to hear from him and hes really wanting me to leave him alone and I just dont give up some times. I think Ill give up on him 2 night and on the weekends. Any way. IM sick of feeling sorry for myself. Stay strong. Don't feel sorry for yourself. Be proud that you're not waiting by the phone. You can do this. Don't you want to have a good life with a good man who is really a MAN and not a little boy?
Author littletoes Posted July 11, 2008 Author Posted July 11, 2008 Hey there. Thanks for the reply it's hard to be strong right now. I'm trying my hardest not to call. This is why IM back here again. Still no calls 2 night. I feel crappy. I'm trying so hard to saty strong hes probably out or soemthing i dont know it just hurts when he said he would call and he did not! Any way I cant wait for Tuesday Ill be back to work and routine and it will make me feel great! Anyway I'm here. I think Ill be here on and off all night trying to get my mind off of this
Touche Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 Hey there. Thanks for the reply it's hard to be strong right now. I'm trying my hardest not to call. This is why IM back here again. Still no calls 2 night. I feel crappy. I'm trying so hard to saty strong hes probably out or soemthing i dont know it just hurts when he said he would call and he did not! Any way I cant wait for Tuesday Ill be back to work and routine and it will make me feel great! Anyway I'm here. I think Ill be here on and off all night trying to get my mind off of this I know that stinks. Sorry you're feeling bad but stick around here. It will take your mind off of it. Read some posts about situations like yours. It might help. That's good that you'll be back to work soon to take your mind off of all of this. If you can get through the next few days until then, it should hopefully get easier for you.
Author littletoes Posted July 11, 2008 Author Posted July 11, 2008 Still no phone calls Ive been thinking about him all night. I've text him snd sent him emails and nothing. NO commuincation what so ever and I feel so alone and lonely. I've been crying a lot. All I have been was a nice girl friend and this is the apprechiation and the respect I get. Today is another day wasted this time no communication with him. His Voicemail is full and I cant leave any more desperate messages pleading for him to call me. IM stressed my self out I hurt my self when I call cause I think he will anser and now hes not.
Touche Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 Why are you still emailing and texting? Don't you have any pride? And even if you don't have pride don't you understand that the more you contact him the more you are pushing him away? Why do you even want to go after someone who won't even keep his word or put in the same effort as you do? Surely, he's not the best you can do, is he?
Author littletoes Posted July 11, 2008 Author Posted July 11, 2008 Thanks for the reply u are right. Right now I feel like I have no pride left. IM not feeling really well and my monthly friend just came over for a visit and my emotions are all twisted. I have to take the phone away from me. and stop calling him.
whichwayisup Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 What is it about him that you actually love? Do a pro/con list. Write all the good stuff on one page and then do the negatives on another page. My guess is the negative list will be MUCH longer than the other. Is this guy worth all your anger, energy, tears, frustration? Just stop. Don't call him, don't email him, don't do anything, just stop. After your monthly friend leaves, take each day and TELL yourself "he is NOT worth it" and don't call him. You feel the urges coming on, post here. Or call a friend, or go out somewhere, take a walk. This guy is scum and he's allowing his mom and sister to run his life. What a p*ssy!
trubella Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 What is it about him that you actually love? Do a pro/con list. Write all the good stuff on one page and then do the negatives on another page. My guess is the negative list will be MUCH longer than the other. she did a pros/cons list on page 4. dont know if shes written it out on paper though. either way, i dont think shes gonna 'see the light' until this guy grows a pair and clearly tells her its over, instead of hinting around like he did with the last convo.
Author littletoes Posted July 11, 2008 Author Posted July 11, 2008 Hey guy's no calls still. Last night I tried calling him and his V m is still full. No e-mails no texts. NO calls. JUst pure disrespect and hes running away from his problems. Hes not man enough to solve them. I told him on Wednesday night that I cant be the one to hold all the weight here. He need to work on these issues with me because we are supposeto ne a team instead of talking the issue he gives up and says he doesnt want to talk about this anymore and he wants to go and smoke a cigerate. then he says bye in a rude fashion and hangs up on me like a coward. Then I get mad when he hangs up because kids do that not adults. i got mad I m startint to remember on Wednesday when he cut me off at the end of the conversation (while I was trying to say I love you he cut me off and he said okay bye and then hes gone! so here im left with the dead silence of the cell I swore and said F and his name. No I did not call him back to chase him. I waited for him to call me back yesterday and hes not. I left maybe 3 messages pleading for him not to avoid me likes hes doing. I called him again and still no answer.
Touche Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 Wow. You don't see it do you? You ARE chasing him. You may not think that's what you're doing but that's exactly the way HE sees it. It is. And I don't know why you're not realizing that he doesn't want to "work" on anything. He's trying to break up with you and you're not seeing that either. He's just a coward though. He won't just tell you. A man who really wants to be with you doesn't act this way. This is so sad to see. I wish you'd realize that you're just wasting your time and your emotions on this guy. This guy does NOT want a relationship. Anyone can see that but you for some reason. Stop texting, IM'ing, calling and whatever other method you have of trying to make contact. You're demeaning yourself. How will you ever move on if you can't even accept that this is over and done with?
Touche Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 Just wanted to add something. I've been reading some of your other posts. You seem to be drawn to guys that provide you with a lot of drama. Good relationships don't have all this drama. Good relationships don't need so much "work." It seems like you always need to have "talks" with this guy. That right there should tell you that this is all wrong and is never going to go anywhere.
Author littletoes Posted July 11, 2008 Author Posted July 11, 2008 Hey Touche. Thanks for getting back to me. I really apprechiate it. Well my final attempt was today. You are absolutely right with all of what u said. I'm just to stupid and blind to realize anything. I emailed him one more long email and then I plan to stop when I get and urge I will come one Love shack and let my fingers do the talking on here. I Just feel sorry for my self having to go through this again and it's killing me. I know I wont die from this so I'll be oK This is going to sting my heart again for the second time. I just cant beleive he cant slove his own decisions and his mom and sister have too. Any way. Its so grey and blue outside and I dont feel like going for a walk.
luvmy2ns Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 This guy does NOT want a relationship. Anyone can see that but you for some reason. Oh, he wants a relationship alright. One that involves three people. Him, his GF, and his mama. That's why he got bent when LT said they have to both work on their issues. His issue is he lets his mama run him, and he KNOWS he doesn't have the gonads to stand up to mama. It reminds me of that movie Waterboy. lol
Author littletoes Posted July 11, 2008 Author Posted July 11, 2008 Hey thanks for getting back to me. Well he is going ot have to work on the issues and hes still has yet to call me. Nothing at all in terms of communications not even a simple email. I think its mama telling him shes no for ypu blah blah blah and hes going crazy to top it off I keep calling him and its pissing rain on me because I just keep hurting my self by calling him. Any way. I'm going to go and sit in the back yard and sip on my drinks Thats what I'm going to do.
porter218 Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 Hey thanks for getting back to me. Well he is going ot have to work on the issues and hes still has yet to call me. Nothing at all in terms of communications not even a simple email. I think its mama telling him shes no for ypu blah blah blah and hes going crazy to top it off I keep calling him and its pissing rain on me because I just keep hurting my self by calling him. Any way. I'm going to go and sit in the back yard and sip on my drinks Thats what I'm going to do. Jenny, Don't put all the blame on his mom. I really don't think it is just because his mom and sister don't like you, I think that he has been on the verge of ending it. This is one of those men that never get married or stay in a relationship for too long. He is a commitment phobe who can easily place the blame conveniently on his mom. Forget that pussy posing as a man, and move on forever. One step you can take to gain a sense of control is change your #. When a week or so goes by and you haven't called him, he will wonder why and try to call you. If your # has been changed he will feel like you did for all those days you tried calling him to no avail. Ignore the hell out of him when he finally starts trying to contact you, then you can revel in the fact that he will be left wondering. I have done this to an ex of mine when things went sour between us, and it felt awesome. When he finally tracked me down at the gym I pretended I didn't know who he was, he was dumbfounded and I could see the hurt on his face. I never spoke to him again, I let him disappear like he had never been a part of my life. It felt really good having control over the situation like that.
Author littletoes Posted July 11, 2008 Author Posted July 11, 2008 Hey porter thanks for getting back I gues sthis guy will never get married even though hes been telling me for the longest time that he would marry me right after the trip even. Now see what happens. Any way I'm slowly trying to forget him and thats it. Well im here. I've been enjoying my time off in my backyard. Any how. I've done all of my trying and its certain that its not getting me any where but pain and sorrow. Its making me feel worthless. I think he is using mom and sister as an escape route. Hes never going ot get married he tole me him self on Wednesday. I have to tell my parents that we are fighting and to stop bugging me about A$$ Wipe
Author littletoes Posted July 11, 2008 Author Posted July 11, 2008 Updates: Nothing. Same stuff diffrent day. Ive been outside and im grumpy. Too grumpy.
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