KinAZ Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 Yeah, I know... Go back and quote everything else I suggested as well, Johan. Thanx!
johan Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 Yeah, I know... Go back and quote everything else I suggested as well, Johan. Thanx! I didn't read it. Would you mind repeating it? Or PM it to me.
KinAZ Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 This is VERY useful information thank you! Confidence has always been a problem for me because I view her as far superior to me so like I said before, I'm always thinking "Wow I don't know how I'm still with this amazing girl," so that is always in the back of my mind and I don't want it to be. I've pretty much put her high on a pedestal. I think she's really big into me being goal oriented as well and I need to really work on that (I have a good plan but I need to pursue it harder). But yeah, the confidence thing is big for me and I'm looking for ways to improve on it... Yeah, I've suggested therapy many times around here, lol and I really don't think it's a bad thing. I generally write out problems or issues (which is my therapy). That's something I had to do when I was feeling a little fearful about going back to school. It's not everyone's cup of tea, I know, but I think that understanding the root of something helps you to correct or at least check the problem. For instance, I would look at why I held someone as superior, all the reasons, and ask questions regarding this and compare it to myself. Like what's so great to make her any better, and so forth. And what I'm lacking to make me feel that I'm not as good. I will literally break everything down to the simplest terms I can, and by the time you're through... more than likely it won't have anything to do with her, or women at all. Confidence you need to improve, just make sure you do whatever you do for the right reasons. I didn't read it. Would you mind repeating it? Or PM it to me.That wouldn't make much since as this thread isn't very long.
Author Ohio14inter Posted July 6, 2008 Author Posted July 6, 2008 yeah...well she's coming over in a few and I haven't seen her in a while so I'm gonna try to stop being so dramatic and what not and see how things go tonight!
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