Mahatma Posted July 5, 2008 Posted July 5, 2008 My girlfriend has invited me over to dinner with her parents and I am not sure what to bring. I am under 21, so wine isn't the best of ideas. I am not sure what all is being prepared because it is a "surprise" so I don't think bringing a dessert would be good if they have already prepared one. So I am thinking a little flower arrangement would be best. But I have no idea what you are supposed to do with those once you get to the house? So to answer my question, where do I put the flowers? the table? kitchen? what? do I give them to someone? Or what should I bring in place of flowers? Thanks in advance, I'd like to make a good first impression on the parents.
Trialbyfire Posted July 5, 2008 Posted July 5, 2008 You can't go wrong with flowers or maybe a plant that flowers, if they're the green type. As well, bringing dessert, regardless if they plan a dessert, only adds to the selection.
soulseeker Posted July 5, 2008 Posted July 5, 2008 Flowers are good. Since the parents invited you over (I assume), I would give the flowers to her mother when you walk in. And be sure to give both parents a firm handshake when you meet them.
Lizzie60 Posted July 5, 2008 Posted July 5, 2008 I would say bring them a bottle of good red wine.. (it's for them not for you)... flowers are nice too, or a dessert, more variety... or even a box of nice chocolates, or chocolate mints..
KinAZ Posted July 5, 2008 Posted July 5, 2008 If it's for the table or something, just ask "would you like me to put set these somewhere" or "where would you like me to put these" when you get there. Generally, the host or hostess will just take them, but... some people don't mind putting guests to work. (hehe) I would stay away from the wine, even though it's not for you. Some people are cool, but then there are others who might use it as reason to ask questions or something. The other options I say would be something in the bread or cheese family.
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