bish Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Ill be honast, i use to be very afraid of beautiful women..but now i just see them as the same as me. But sometimes the girl thinksshe is too good for a normal guy like me...happend before... but why are we so afraid? Do we think we are out of their league? Are we? I'm not intimidated or scared of a beautiful woman. But there is an ugliness with too many beautiful women, not all, but a good majority I have come across. They are full of themselves which is a quality I don't like in any person. so to me it isn't so much being scared of them, its that most of the time a beautiful woman's attitude is a major turnoff.
Lizzie60 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Hahahahaha... this thread makes me laugh... especially when I read stuff like 'oh beautiful women are not nice... they are a turn-offs, they are full of themselves' blablabla.. those replies probably come from men who very well know that even if the beautiful women were 'nice', and turning them on.. they very well know that they don't stand a chance of getting them... they are way out of their league.. so go ahead, call the beautiful women, ugly b*tches, narcistic, etc.. etc... it's too funny...
JP77 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Hahahahaha... this thread makes me laugh... especially when I read stuff like 'oh beautiful women are not nice... they are a turn-offs, they are full of themselves' blablabla.. those replies probably come from men who very well know that even if the beautiful women were 'nice', and turning them on.. they very well know that they don't stand a chance of getting them... they are way out of their league.. so go ahead, call the beautiful women, ugly b*tches, narcistic, etc.. etc... it's too funny... I agree with you, it is funny. It is also funny when ugly women think they are beautiful and use league tables.
Lizzie60 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 I agree with you, it is funny. It is also funny when ugly women think they are beautiful and use league tables. ah - ha... bitter JP.. truth hurts.. huh?
JP77 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 ah - ha... bitter JP.. truth hurts.. huh? No, I've gotten plenty of hot women, I don't pull women old enough to be my nan, so that's you out of the equation.
Lizzie60 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 No, I've gotten plenty of hot women, I don't pull women old enough to be my nan, so that's you out of the equation. Good because from your posts I read so far.. you wouldn't even be in MY league.. sorrry
JP77 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Good because from your posts I read so far.. you wouldn't even be in MY league.. sorrry Yes, I'm not in your league, I'm several leagues higher than you and I'm white, so that cancels me out there and I'm old enough to your Grandson, that's another reason.
Lizzie60 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Yes, I'm not in your league, I'm several leagues higher than you and I'm white, so that cancels me out there and I'm old enough to your Grandson, that's another reason. Ha-hem.. I was thinking a few leagues 'lower'... based on some of your answers here.. I like intelligent guys.. black, white, any colour, I'm not racist.. and I like them young.. and smart..
JP77 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Ha-hem.. I was thinking a few leagues 'lower'... based on some of your answers here.. I like intelligent guys.. black, white, any colour, I'm not racist.. and I like them young.. and smart.. LMAO. Ok Grandma, put your teeth back in and do your crossword.
Lizzie60 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 LMAO. Ok Grandma, put your teeth back in and do your crossword. thanks for this post JP.. you just confirmed my last post..
JP77 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 thanks for this post JP.. you just confirmed my last post.. Was that confirmation, that I am as low as your breasts when you stand up? Grandma, it is time to book yourself into an old people's home and stop behaving like you are 20 when you are probably going through a menopause.
2sunny Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Was that confirmation, that I am as low as your breasts when you stand up? Grandma, it is time to book yourself into an old people's home and stop behaving like you are 20 when you are probably going through a menopause. JP! Stop this right now! Why are you messing with Lizzie? Geez, just stop it already! If you knew anything about Lizzie you would understand that your comments are completely way off base and terribly inappropriate...
HiItsMe Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 they are way out of their league.. I dont' believe in the concept of "Leagues".
Lizzie60 Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 I dont' believe in the concept of "Leagues". I know some people don't but I do... I have never seen a nerdy, zitsy, fatso guy/girl with a drop dead gorgeous guy/girl... Same as you won't see an extremely smart person dating someone 'borderline'...
trubella Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 I know some people don't but I do... I have never seen a nerdy, zitsy, fatso guy/girl with a drop dead gorgeous guy/girl... I have. i was reading a news story about howard stern recently where he had a ugliest guy/hottest wife contest .. reminded me of this thread. i still think howard stern and beth couldve easily won that category
Lizzie60 Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 I have. i was reading a news story about howard stern recently where he had a ugliest guy/hottest wife contest .. reminded me of this thread. i still think howard stern and beth couldve easily won that category Yes but in those cases, intelligence has to outweigh looks IMO..
kizik Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 Why are men "afraid" of beautiful women? B/c beautiful women are often arrogant and mean. A guy approaches them and they laugh like, "Yeah, right." Rare is the "beautiful" woman who hasn't had her head inflated by hordes of men throughout her life, and is modest and kind to people. And men just keep on playing their parts. They whistle and ooh and ahh and treat beautiful women as if they are first-class citizens, instead of downplaying their own amazement at the woman's above-average looks and treating them like humans.
Mahatma Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 What I have found is looks are only important for attraction and first impressions, for both sides. Being an attractive male makes it much easier to get attractive women, but isn't really needed. People feel equal to people that also feel they are equal to them and that creates an attraction. If you treat a girl like she is out of your league, she will feel like she is, and therefor will be. If you treat her like your equal, she will treat you like hers.
McLovely Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 What I have found is looks are only important for attraction and first impressions, for both sides. Being an attractive male makes it much easier to get attractive women, but isn't really needed. People feel equal to people that also feel they are equal to them and that creates an attraction. If you treat a girl like she is out of your league, she will feel like she is, and therefor will be. If you treat her like your equal, she will treat you like hers. There is so much truth in this! A guy I am flirty friends with is the epitome of the hollywood stud look. Out of this world good looking. And while I know that I am attractive, there is a part of me that feels like he is out of my league. But when we spend time together he is always complimenting me on my appearance and treats me like the most beautiful woman alive. So I feel it and believe it. Ultimately, I believe confidence comes from within, but sometimes a little boost from someone you have an attraction to can really ramp that up! As a side note, we go back so many years that dating him would feel almost like dating my brother, but I know if I gave into his advances he would be mine in a heartbeat. Just knowing that makes me feel even more like a goddess!
bigmanpayne Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 if you ignore them and at the very least act as if you are on their level, you will be fine. confidence goes a long way. my last girlfriend was incredibly beautiful and i learned that she is just like everyone else, and in a lot of ways worse. her looks were just that - looks! underneath the hood was kinda ugly. the outside of a person is just everyone's opinion, the inside is what/who you are, and most gorgeous women never work on the indside because frankly they never had too.
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