orangehose Posted July 5, 2008 Posted July 5, 2008 I just changed my #. I am SO glad Y that you are standing up for yourself. You'll eventually find a woman far worthier of your affections.
purplepoodle Posted July 5, 2008 Posted July 5, 2008 You ARE TALKING TO THE Y!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111111111111111111111 LOL! That was cute:bunny:
foxh1234 Posted July 5, 2008 Posted July 5, 2008 Great decision on the # change. You are doing great, keep it up man.
LikeCharlotte Posted July 5, 2008 Posted July 5, 2008 Y!!!!! OMG!!!! SHE F****** CALLED!!!! Just kidding. Thought I'd try your style too. Don't talk to her after what she's done. You know this and obviously you were prepared. I always miss the good stuff! -Charlotte
Author FauxVowel Posted July 6, 2008 Author Posted July 6, 2008 Hmph, well, haven't heard anything since. WTF? lol Just calls to mess with me, then goes back to her life with Mr. W. Sheesh. Cool.
northstar1 Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 Hmph, well, haven't heard anything since. WTF? lol Just calls to mess with me, then goes back to her life with Mr. W. Sheesh. Cool. Even more reason to keep up the NC.
CHANTRESS Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 Hmph, well, haven't heard anything since. WTF? lol Just calls to mess with me, then goes back to her life with Mr. W. Sheesh. Cool. I thought you changed your #?? How could she call?
Author FauxVowel Posted July 6, 2008 Author Posted July 6, 2008 I thought you changed your #?? How could she call? Well she hasn't come over yet. heh
Author FauxVowel Posted July 7, 2008 Author Posted July 7, 2008 I can't take it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why did she call????????????????? WHY????????????????? I'm worse than before again. It's like I just talked to her. WTF?????????? Is she gonna come over???????????????????????? I miss her a LOT. WHY is she doin' this???????????????????? WHY???????????????????????????????????????/////////////////////////////
vivrantflo Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 How you are reacting right now.. is exactly what she wants. Think about it. Her call couldn't have been important, otherwise she would have left a messege. She hasn't heard from you, so she's testing you. The last time you spoke to her, didn't you tell her to never talk to you again?? Well she's testing to see if you mean it. She's still with the other guy, so there's absolutely nothing she can say, that you'd want to hear. Keep up the good work in NC. Your anger and frustration will once again pass..
Author FauxVowel Posted July 7, 2008 Author Posted July 7, 2008 How you are reacting right now.. is exactly what she wants. Think about it. Her call couldn't have been important, otherwise she would have left a messege. She hasn't heard from you, so she's testing you. The last time you spoke to her, didn't you tell her to never talk to you again?? Well she's testing to see if you mean it. She's still with the other guy, so there's absolutely nothing she can say, that you'd want to hear. Keep up the good work in NC. Your anger and frustration will once again pass.. Ok, so if I pass the test, is she gonna want me back???????????????
ioncebelieved Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 Ok, so if I pass the test, is she gonna want me back??????????????? Probably not! Sorry to be a kill joy, but vivrantflo was spot on with what he said. They want that control over you. She may try some more dirty tricks as I like to refer to them. Dude, don't you see that you are winning??? I know it is hard!!!!
kizik Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 Y - wake up. You're still on her string. Get off it. She sucks. She's a game player and you're being played like the fiddle Sedgwick gets so mad about. Stop it. You're being f*cking ridiculous. Go ahead and think about other things than her for a change.
Author FauxVowel Posted July 7, 2008 Author Posted July 7, 2008 Probably not! Sorry to be a kill joy, but vivrantflo was spot on with what he said. They want that control over you. She may try some more dirty tricks as I like to refer to them. Dude, don't you see that you are winning??? I know it is hard!!!! So she doesn't want me, but she wants me to want HER. Uh, okay... That sucks... I can't take it. I was doin' fine 'til she called. She doesn't know I'm messed up though, right? WTF?????????????/!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11111
ioncebelieved Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 So she doesn't want me, but she wants me to want HER. Uh, okay... That sucks... I can't take it. I was doin' fine 'til she called. She doesn't know I'm messed up though, right? WTF?????????????/!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11111 That's it!!!! NEVER LET EM SEE YA SWEAT!! You can't cave in man!!! Do not let her see that she has gotten to you.
vivrantflo Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 So she doesn't want me, but she wants me to want HER. That's it bud.. you just figured it out. It's all about having her ego stroked. That's why you changing your number put you in the driver's seat. She now knows that you're serious about wanting to move on from her. If she ever wants you back, she'll show up at your door. Until then, live your life, and start dating around. Cause even if she came back, you shouldn't give her the time of day. Fake it, until you make it bro.
LikeCharlotte Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 So she doesn't want me, but she wants me to want HER. Uh, okay... That sucks... I can't take it. I was doin' fine 'til she called. She doesn't know I'm messed up though, right? WTF?????????????/!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11111You'll never know what she wanted because you didn't answer. If it was that important she'd have called back or left a message.You told her you didn't want to speak to her. Maybe it didn't sink in right away.
Author FauxVowel Posted July 7, 2008 Author Posted July 7, 2008 You'll never know what she wanted because you didn't answer. If it was that important she'd have called back or left a message.You told her you didn't want to speak to her. Maybe it didn't sink in right away. The fact that she didn't leave a message indicates`that she would be afraid that Mr. Wonderful might hear it, so yeah, whatever.
ioncebelieved Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 The fact that she didn't leave a message indicates`that she would be afraid that Mr. Wonderful might hear it, so yeah, whatever. Yeah maybe, I have been where you are analyzing the hell out of it. She has your head a spinning right now. It is working what she is doing, but YOU WILL NOT LET THAT SHOW to her. You reveal yourself if her a$$ is at the door. THEN AND ONLY THEN!! You get it, got it, good!!!!!
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 I can't take it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why did she call????????????????? WHY????????????????? I'm worse than before again. It's like I just talked to her. WTF?????????? Is she gonna come over???????????????????????? I miss her a LOT. WHY is she doin' this???????????????????? WHY???????????????????????????????????????///////////////////////////// She's doing it because her heart had a nostalgia attack, is bleeding and she needs you to be an emotional tampon. You know... soak up all the ugly stuff and get discarded when she is done with you. I would bet she isn't comfortable doing that with the new guy, so she is turning to you to blow off her steam. That way she gets to keep Mr. Wonderful AND use you at the same time. Want to avoid that? Continue to stonewall her and refuse any and all contact. Eventually you will get to the point where you can be indifferent but it does take a while to get there. Just take it one day at a time... patience, patience.
Author FauxVowel Posted July 8, 2008 Author Posted July 8, 2008 Ok, I just have to remember that she thinks I am a terrible person, and she DOESN'T like me, and she is not calling because she misses me, she is calling while she is happy with Mr. W, and I am suffering, and she wants to hear my pathetic voice, well I will not give her the satisfaction. I miss her so much, and this is all some funny cruel mean game or joke to her. It hurts bad, but I'm gonna take it. I don't need to hear how she's pregnant or engaged or any of that crap. I've been through that before. No thanks. I miss her so much though. WHAT is going through her head? She misses me? She totally HATES me? She's not sure? WTF??? I will just continue trucking on...
Author FauxVowel Posted July 8, 2008 Author Posted July 8, 2008 Should I have answered? Maybe I coulda got her to come over? Is she gonna call again? She can call me at work still. Should I answer? I think I'm gonna. I'll tell her if she ever wants to talk, she knows where I work. Or just don't answer, and if she really cared, she would just show up? Ok, I'll just pretend like she's dead again. Yeah... It was a ghost call... I will go on with my life without her, just like I was... She doesn't like me, and wants to hurt me? She misses me, and is on the verge of coming over? I can't take this. Not answering is better than answering, right? I can't help that I LOVE this person!!!!!!!!!!!!! Argh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Should I just tell her, listen I will always care about you a lot, but I can't ever talk to you again, 'cuzza what you did, or no, I don't want that, I miss her. WTF? I shouldn't tell Mr. Wonderful that she called me? Maybe she wants that? Maybe she wants me to help break them up? ****ing kill me. I love her and she is treating this like a funny game. Wow I hate this.
northstar1 Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 Should I have answered? Maybe I coulda got her to come over? Is she gonna call again? She can call me at work still. Should I answer? I think I'm gonna. I'll tell her if she ever wants to talk, she knows where I work. Or just don't answer, and if she really cared, she would just show up? Ok, I'll just pretend like she's dead again. Yeah... It was a ghost call... I will go on with my life without her, just like I was... She doesn't like me, and wants to hurt me? She misses me, and is on the verge of coming over? I can't take this. Not answering is better than answering, right? I can't help that I LOVE this person!!!!!!!!!!!!! Argh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Should I just tell her, listen I will always care about you a lot, but I can't ever talk to you again, 'cuzza what you did, or no, I don't want that, I miss her. WTF? I shouldn't tell Mr. Wonderful that she called me? Maybe she wants that? Maybe she wants me to help break them up? ****ing kill me. I love her and she is treating this like a funny game. Wow I hate this. Y - this mental ping pong you are playing is going to drive you completely insane. Too many "what ifs". This woman is not good for you, despite all the good times you have had. You need to keep going on your progress to fully remove her from your life. You can do it
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