stolenheart123 Posted July 4, 2008 Posted July 4, 2008 Today all I can think about is her. I'm so mad at myself. How can she forget about me, how can she not love me anymore. Im so bitter and lost. We broke up May 19th after i found out she pawned the engagement ring I gave her. Ever since that day I've maintained NC. The first month was fine, but now it has really set in that she is with someone else. Its like 45 or 46 days of NC and Im just tempted to break it. Im not sure why though, I think I just miss her. I've been having a hard time with my business lately and its so stressful maybe I just miss her being on my side. Today sucks
kizik Posted July 4, 2008 Posted July 4, 2008 The 4th of July. I feel almost entirely alone in this ridiculous world. Even LoveShackers are off and enjoying their day! With their families, with friends! F*ck! I understand how you feel. You've been amazing at maintaining your NC. Stick with it. Only good can come from leaving her alone. Only bad can come from contacting. You will hurt yourself if you call her. She will be happy, she will be with that new guy. Be oblivious. Be ignorant. No info on her. None. She's not forgotten about you, but she may be doing fine without you. You have to accept that. Once you accept that, and that she aint coming back, you can start to get over her, too.
Raina Posted July 4, 2008 Posted July 4, 2008 You know what it helps? Get your mind on something else, get busy, do important things for your life, improve yourself. It's all about you now. Be selfish. Repeat after me: Me Me Me Me. In my personal experience, avoid reading LS stories who develop badly, it won't do you any good and it will make you pity yourself and make you think about her even more. Get the hell out of those forums. Another thing that is really good for your ego: flirting. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, there are women out there who need a guy like you, believe it or not. But I'm just a newbie:bunny:
northstar1 Posted July 5, 2008 Posted July 5, 2008 The 4th of July. I feel almost entirely alone in this ridiculous world. Even LoveShackers are off and enjoying their day! With their families, with friends! F*ck! I understand how you feel. You've been amazing at maintaining your NC. Stick with it. Only good can come from leaving her alone. Only bad can come from contacting. You will hurt yourself if you call her. She will be happy, she will be with that new guy. Be oblivious. Be ignorant. No info on her. None. She's not forgotten about you, but she may be doing fine without you. You have to accept that. Once you accept that, and that she aint coming back, you can start to get over her, too. I think this is a good point Kiz. We assume our ex's have completely erased us from their memories, which is not likely. They are human and do think of us. HOWEVER, that is different from them wanting to contact us. They may be busy with their lives and maybe that includes a new interest. The reality is that relationships, like most things, do end. They really important part is when we can accept that when some things end, it's for good - there are no 'what if's and looking back all the time. It's natural at first to do that, to replay every single memory and scenerio. You have to eventually stop wondering what they are doing, how they are doing, who they are with - you will just drive youself insane doing that. Keep up the NC.
kyta Posted July 5, 2008 Posted July 5, 2008 [/b] I think this is a good point Kiz. We assume our ex's have completely erased us from their memories, which is not likely. They are human and do think of us. HOWEVER, that is different from them wanting to contact us. They may be busy with their lives and maybe that includes a new interest. The reality is that relationships, like most things, do end. They really important part is when we can accept that when some things end, it's for good - there are no 'what if's and looking back all the time. It's natural at first to do that, to replay every single memory and scenerio. You have to eventually stop wondering what they are doing, how they are doing, who they are with - you will just drive youself insane doing that. Keep up the NC. 100% Agree with that north
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