sas218 Posted July 4, 2008 Posted July 4, 2008 A little recap before I talk about the new situation. The breakup happened a little less than two months ago. He did it because he wasnt good enough for me and because he did not want to feel restricted by a girlfriend. Within a month he started sleeping with one of his friends, and now they might be having a kid. So now to the new situation, I need insight in. Substitutions for Names: EX-D His New Sleeping Partner-G His Friend-F D and I would talk off and on, but when I found out about the possible child, I decided to go no contact. I have to admit that I slipped a few times but I was trying. I was also occasionally talking to F. I get a text from F that he cannot talk to me anymore because it isnt far to D. I tell him thats fine, it is no sweat off my nose. That was a week ago, I got a text from him yesterday. Heres how the texts play out. Text 1(F)- After G and D got together, and you saw D did you ever do anything? Text 2(F)-Did you guys kiss, cuddle, did he tell you he love you or anything? Text 3(Me)-I thought you werent talking to me. Text 4 (F)-I changed my mind. Text 5 (Me)-Why do you want to know? Text 6 (F)-Just wondering Text 7 (Me)-He held me a couple of times, told me he loved me, and that he hoped that we got back together. Text 8 (F)-Oh thats not fair because he told G that he didnt have feelings for you and that he hadnt seen you. Text 9 (Me)-Oh well thats her problem now...I am going out with someone new tonight. I get a blocked call later in the evening. It is the ex. It turns out that it was him that was texting me on his friends phone. He said that he wanted to see what I would say about him. I dont know why it would even matter because we dont have any mutual friends or acquaintances. I told him if he wanted to know what I really thought of him he could have just asked. Then he proceeded to ask who I was out with and where I went and what I did. I told him it wasnt any of his business. He told me hes in love with G but that they still arent dating. I tell him its good that he loves the person that he may be having a baby with and that I really dont care. He kept asking me personally questions....Then I told him that I had him for a year and now it is over and that if I ever met him again it would just be as friends because I would never get back together with him. He said that I was mean and he hung up on me. Does anyone have an insight into what that was all about?
Author sas218 Posted July 14, 2008 Author Posted July 14, 2008 I still need help figuring this out...anyone?
Ronni_W Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 You were NOT "mean" to him. He is acting extremely immaturely. The way you are dealing with him is perfect. The way you are moving forward with your own life is perfect.
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