purplepoodle Posted July 4, 2008 Posted July 4, 2008 We were together for almost a year and it's been almost 4 month since the split. I still hurt and think about him constantly. I still feel like I did in the beginning with a little less of a sting. Even when I am busy, he is on my mind. Shouldn't I be over this by now???
sunshinegirl Posted July 4, 2008 Posted July 4, 2008 Don't beat yourself up. Everyone's timeline for healing is different. I dated a guy for six months one time and it took me a year and a half to get over him!
Author purplepoodle Posted July 4, 2008 Author Posted July 4, 2008 I see people in relationships a lot longer then mine that get over it quicker and it makes me wonder what I'm doing wrong. I've been in longer relationships that it has taken me a lot less time to get over.
johan Posted July 4, 2008 Posted July 4, 2008 It's probably more about how the breakup made you feel about yourself than how you felt about him. When you can forgive yourself for whatever you think you did or were, then you can stop feeling like only he can make you feel better. And then you'll be able to look more toward the future and less toward the past.
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