Westly Posted July 4, 2008 Posted July 4, 2008 Im a guy in my mid-twenties and have been so busy the last year with school i have been out of the dating loop for quite a while, but summer is here! Now rather than just relying on meeting women thru the same social circles, etc. I plan to muster up the courage to talk to women anytime anywhere. (grocery, shopping mall, book store, dace club , gas station wherever ) My question is, Ladies, what are some of the most comfortable and catchy things guys have first said when talking to you out of the blue? Fellas, are there any some smooth things you like to say to a woman that easily sparks conversation and eliminates any awkwardness?
johan Posted July 4, 2008 Posted July 4, 2008 Instead of approaching them out of the blue, you'll have much better luck if you approach them from out of the sun. It will be harder to see you coming and they will have less time to react.
D-Lish Posted July 4, 2008 Posted July 4, 2008 I think the most important thing for me when someone approaches me out of the blue is that their first comment doesn't come off as contrived or overly "sexual". I have had guys at the grocery store say some crazy stuff to me that turned me off immediately. Humour is always the best avenue when you want to talk to someone. Keep it light, no sexual innuendos...
Author Westly Posted July 4, 2008 Author Posted July 4, 2008 blue, sun, moon whatever... but they have to see me, who do you think I am? Batman? I generally talk to a woman only after eye contact and a smile as well. awesome, so mos def understand when it comes to not being overtly contrived/corny or being perverted. any specific examples? situations? good topics to have a quick chat a bout?
D-Lish Posted July 4, 2008 Posted July 4, 2008 I think the best line a guy ever used on me was the simplest. I was walking the dogs in the park and my dogs played with his dogs a bit, and he said to me "wow, you're really pretty". I was on cloud nine all day after that. I quite like it when a guy looks me in the eye and is confident and straight-forward.
confused and broken Posted July 4, 2008 Posted July 4, 2008 I met one of my exs in a coffee shop... generally it is a friendly atmosphere... Coffee shops can be an excellent place if you see a girl on her own and she looks approachable ask her if the seat beside her taken.....and then small talk of course I have also met guys at bars pubs ect along with most people on the planet Honestly if you are not afraid of rejection try talking to any women you are interested in talking to anywhere Usually I have met guys through work/school/classes/friends/family/recreational activities... These are common ways because you have a chance to get to know someone... in public often people are in a rush Out walking sometimes works especially downtown Good luck
Prodigal Princess Posted July 4, 2008 Posted July 4, 2008 I think the most important thing for me when someone approaches me out of the blue is that their first comment doesn't come off as contrived or overly "sexual". I have had guys at the grocery store say some crazy stuff to me that turned me off immediately. Humour is always the best avenue when you want to talk to someone. Keep it light, no sexual innuendos... So true!! The best pick up line Ive ever had is when a guy came up to me at a bar and said, "Wow, great dress. I have the exact same one at home!" It was cute, cheeky and made me laugh. We had a good pash session later on that night. However, I'd warn that you shouldn't try to be too inventive if you can't pull it off. Sometimes simple is best. For example: "Hi, [insert comment relevant to situation here e.g. gee this bar is busy isn't it; that's a great DVD, Id highly recommend it ... etc]." Then if you get a positive response, introduce yourself and go from there. I'll also repeat D-Lish's advice - stay away from sexual innuendos!
rosalie Posted July 4, 2008 Posted July 4, 2008 Don't be afraid to approach any woman out of the blue - we love it as long as it doesn't seem like "a line" you use on every girl. Make sure you've taken the time to observe and have noticed something unique or noticeable whether it's her eyes, her hair, the way she relates to her friends (if she's with her friends) her dog, her bag, her dress, whatever - girls can smell a "line" from a mile away, notice something special about here and she will always respond - guaranteed!
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