I can't stand my friend!!!!!

[ShadowU12345]

I haven't been able to stand my supposedly best friend for a while now. I do believe that he is one of those "Toxic" people that some of you may have heard about. I can't stand being around him at all, he whines about every little thing, and is always so negative towards anything I do or say. Almost everyday he will walk over here to my house while my parents are at work and he will come knocking on the door and trying to get in. Then he starts calling my cell phone, and then he goes looking and knocking on every window in the house. This has annoyed me for the last few months, and I try to ignore him as much as possible. I really don't like to be around him, and he knows that. About a month or 2 ago I confronted him and tried to talk over the whole situation about how I'm not supposed to have company when my parents are gone, and how my parents said that I'm not supposed to be hanging out with him because of some illegal drug related issues that he went through, and how hes not the same person I knew before he got into a drug obsession. I talked to him about all of these things and he took everything I said in the wrong way. I mean I feel kinda like a dick for not answering his calls and for not wanting to hang out with him, but I really honestly despise him and can't stand even seeing him. I almost don't know what to do anymore. I'm always so happy when hes not around and I've realized that, and the second he shows up unexpectedly I go into an automatic slump of unhappiness. Has someone else had a friend somewhat similar to mine or feel the same way? Could someone please help me on what I should do about this?

[blair08]

I haven't been able to stand my supposedly best friend for a while now. I do believe that he is one of those "Toxic" people that some of you may have heard about. I can't stand being around him at all, he whines about every little thing, and is always so negative towards anything I do or say. Almost everyday he will walk over here to my house while my parents are at work and he will come knocking on the door and trying to get in. Then he starts calling my cell phone, and then he goes looking and knocking on every window in the house. This has annoyed me for the last few months, and I try to ignore him as much as possible. I really don't like to be around him, and he knows that. About a month or 2 ago I confronted him and tried to talk over the whole situation about how I'm not supposed to have company when my parents are gone, and how my parents said that I'm not supposed to be hanging out with him because of some illegal drug related issues that he went through, and how hes not the same person I knew before he got into a drug obsession. I talked to him about all of these things and he took everything I said in the wrong way. I mean I feel kinda like a dick for not answering his calls and for not wanting to hang out with him, but I really honestly despise him and can't stand even seeing him. I almost don't know what to do anymore. I'm always so happy when hes not around and I've realized that, and the second he shows up unexpectedly I go into an automatic slump of unhappiness. Has someone else had a friend somewhat similar to mine or feel the same way? Could someone please help me on what I should do about this?

 

an emotional vampire that is sucking the life out of you, with their negativity? Do you ever fell drained and not sure what to do or think after talking with him and hearing them whine?

 

Sometimes its best to cut ties with people like that, for your own sanity. I know no one wants to lose a friend and it sounds like you have been a friend, but a person can't take but so much. When someone elses negativity starts to rub off on you, or you no longer want to be around them, its time to do something.