Author mopar crazy Posted July 15, 2008 Author Posted July 15, 2008 read this post again... i am not necessarily pointing at an affair. i was merely making notice of so much time away from the family. it's the time away that can make a gal feel as though a hobby or work is the same as an OW. I understand what you are saying 2sunny and I agree. I feel like I am second to his golf and it shouldn't be that way. The kids and I should come first and there are times where I feel like golf comes b4 us. Of course he doesn't think that way. One question though, do you think he needs to continue to work on making amends from his A b/c he has already did that, the A has been over for 5 years. I wonder how he would feel if I had a hobby that took me away from him and the kids 3-4 nights a week? He would would have a sh#t fit. Maybe I should be gone 3 or 4 nights a week several hours at a time and see how he would feel. The things is, I don't want to be. My kids are growing up fast and I don't want to be gone all the time. Wish he felt the same.
Author mopar crazy Posted July 15, 2008 Author Posted July 15, 2008 If I were you.. I would be so freaken curious that I would 'check' him once in a while just to be absolutely certain that he is golfing.. (don't let him read this )... but that's just me.. I don't think I would ever trust him again. Lizzie, I am not curious, TBH w/ you. If he wants to get an OW let him, b/c I will find out and he will be out the door so fast his head will spin. If I am going to be in this M I can't live not trusting him. Sure, I don't trust him 100% like I did b4 his A. But, I know how much his stupid golf game means to him so I guess that is why I am not curious about him not being there.
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