Simon Leon Posted July 2, 2008 Posted July 2, 2008 The last couple of days, I have started to get really pissed off with my situation. I really feel like taking all my ex's stuff outside and burning it all in the fire-pit. All the stuff she really treasures...like her old photo albums, school year books, all her drawings from college, all her old journals, all her paintings she did over the years. The only thing that stops me is that I think I might regret it when I calm down. God damn it...f***k, f**k.
inulg Posted July 2, 2008 Posted July 2, 2008 The last couple of days, I have started to get really pissed off with my situation. I really feel like taking all my ex's stuff outside and burning it all in the fire-pit. All the stuff she really treasures...like her old photo albums, school year books, all her drawings from college, all her old journals, all her paintings she did over the years. The only thing that stops me is that I think I might regret it when I calm down. God damn it...f***k, f**k. what happened? lets hear it! :)whats your story?
Lizzie60 Posted July 2, 2008 Posted July 2, 2008 The last couple of days, I have started to get really pissed off with my situation. I really feel like taking all my ex's stuff outside and burning it all in the fire-pit. All the stuff she really treasures...like her old photo albums, school year books, all her drawings from college, all her old journals, all her paintings she did over the years. The only thing that stops me is that I think I might regret it when I calm down. God damn it...f***k, f**k. Come on.. calm down.. don't do this... you will regret it for sure... Only losers do depiscable stuff like that... would you like this done to YOU?
kizik Posted July 2, 2008 Posted July 2, 2008 Right on! You are beginning to "get it"! Congrats! You are on your way to recovery.
Author Simon Leon Posted July 2, 2008 Author Posted July 2, 2008 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t156757/ This link shoud tell you most of it.
Author Simon Leon Posted July 2, 2008 Author Posted July 2, 2008 I know I'll regret it......but sometimes I just want revenge. I'm sooooo glad I've got this LS board to vent to.
Lizzie60 Posted July 2, 2008 Posted July 2, 2008 I know I'll regret it......but sometimes I just want revenge. I'm sooooo glad I've got this LS board to vent to. I just read your 'link'. Did you 2 met while she was on vacation or something? You seem to be two smart persons.. but I don't know what happened.. you drifted apart..
Author Simon Leon Posted July 2, 2008 Author Posted July 2, 2008 We met about 11 years ago in a camping ground in Egypt. It was pretty much love at first sight. She moved to NZ to live with me...but missed her family, so I moved to the US. We got married about 1 yr later. We have had a lot of fun over the last 10 yrs and got into a really good financial position, great house, travelled the world, have great friends. I don't know what the f**k happened. I honestly don't think there is OM. She didn't change her attitude to me at all. All of a sudden it was "I'm not happy and want a seperation". Moved out that night.
Lizzie60 Posted July 2, 2008 Posted July 2, 2008 Hum... hard to say what really happened.. Just give her time and space.. not much you can do anyhow...
Author Simon Leon Posted July 2, 2008 Author Posted July 2, 2008 I know that I need to give her time and space....but I'm not sure about the total NC thing. We still have bill's and a mortgage to pay. I just can't blow her off totally. That's not the kind of guy I am.
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