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Recap of first "date" with my sisters best friend. Now the second!?


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Hello,

Here is the story in short. I'am 21 she is 18. We talked to each other on some occassions where we both where. I really liked here, so after a little bit of texting I phoned here for a get to gether.

 

I just came back. We had a couple of drinks in the sun and talked for about 2.5 hours. We had good eye contact but I never ever during the whole conversation made a compliment. We did do the three kisses when we met and when we left, but no thouching in between.

When we where leaving It went as follow (translated)

kiss kiss kiss,

me: It was fun talking to you

she: yeah definitially

she: see you next time (if any dutch members are reading.. she said tot de volgende keer)

 

I'am not really sure what to do next. Here are my thoughts:

- She is my sisters best friend, i dont want to srew it up.

- I really like here, so i want to get in a relationship with here.

- Iam not really sure what my next move is, i dont want to look desperate by texting here right away.

- She is into art and design. In a city near by is a museum which as a expose which i think she really likes. I want to take here there for a second date... Is that a solide plan?

 

So. The next date definitly must contain more flirting etc because i dont want to land in the just friends zone. (but again i dont want to be to pushy because she is my sisters friend)

 

Is it a good plan to not text her at all (unless she texts me) and call here on fryday asking if she would like to go with me to someplace fun (not reveiiling where to).

 

And i feel uncomfortable if she doenst text me, should I?

 

Tnx.

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