Madkurlz0 Posted July 1, 2008 Posted July 1, 2008 My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me on Sunday. He said that he just couldn’t take the arguments. That there was only so much he can take. I didn’t think we had argued that much but apparently it has really affected the way he feels about me and that he no longer loves me. He explained that due to the fighting his feelings have changed for me. I can tell you that we have had 3 huge arguments in the past 2 years and it was in the last 6 months. He says we never argued much before bc he wouldn’t argue back, and he now explains that he can’t just stay quiet. I told him that I realized that the fights were stupid and I had gotten mad at him for no apparent reason at all. I explained that it was misdirected anger towards him. That we should make this relationship work. We were engaged. We were also trying to make a baby 3 weeks ago!!! But he said it was too late. He no longer loves me and says that he can no longer be with me. My heart is shattered. I have left Monday morning and am staying at my condo. Luckily I had just rented it to a girlfriend of mine and she is single and has no problem with us sharing the place (even though it’s a 1 bedroom). I am to return on Wednesday to have s sit down with his parents, (we lived with them). He has contacted my friends to see how I am, they say he seems genuinely concerned. I’m sure he is. A part of me knows that I have to move on and another part of me is hoping he will change his mind. How do I go on?
joejoechen Posted July 1, 2008 Posted July 1, 2008 Love doens't just go off all in a sudden, there must be a certain period of signs that you can see it coming all the way, just maybe you chose to ignore the problem all these time.. You said both of you were trying to even make baby 3 weeks ago, and now he doesn't love you anymore, it seems a bit too far fetched to hear, I'm not trying to offend in any way, but.. Is there something behind scene that he came up with such decisions? trying figuring out.. it helps. Keep us posted!! Joe
backto1 Posted July 1, 2008 Posted July 1, 2008 Please ignore the idiot above me. Don't blame yourself at all. Many breakups are complete surprises to the person being dumped.
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