dreamergrl Posted July 1, 2008 Posted July 1, 2008 Hey everyone - haven't been on much in the last 3 weeks, been super busy. Anyways... I wanted to give an update about my last dating issue. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t154639/?highlight=dreamergrl I had made the choice to see what happened, and even though it ended shortly after, I'm still glad I did. I needed this learning experience. At first, yeah it sucked, but now I know more about what I want out of a relationship, and this helps me so much. One thing I'm proud of is that since my last really bad breakup of a really bad relationship, I had promised myself to stop dating guys who treated me like crap. Which I have! But now I'm learning that because I'm not going for those guys anymore, I need to figure out what I want out of a healthy relationship. Since the last guy and I broke up, I started dating yet another guy. He's 36, has a 5 year old son. Does very well for himself, knows what he wants out of a relationship. He has made it very clear that having time for each other in a relationship is extremely important (among many other things), and he's at a point in life where he wants to find someone to be with. No, I'm not jumping the gun, but he's real good to me, always finds time for me, and shows he's into me. He's very sweet, we always have fun, and he makes me feel good about myself. I guess my point is, that since my really nasty last relationship, the quality of men I've been dating has been getting better, and I'm starting to feel like I'm on the right track to find what I'm looking for - and it feels great. Thanks to everyone with the great advice and support! You guys rock!
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