Robertliu9 Posted July 1, 2008 Posted July 1, 2008 Hello, I'm 21 and my girlfriend is 18, we will have been together for 2 years on the 8th. This is the first long-term relationship we've both been in. Initially we were both madly in love, we didn't have any real fights for almost a year, everything was perfect. We get along really well, but recently we've been having fights about money, sex, my lack of thought before I say stuff she also has a few issues with her self-esteem and school. Today she told me that she doesn't love me as much as I love her and that's been a problem the whole relationship, sex is another issue, she said that she isn't physically attracted to me anymore, this has been a problem after a car sex incident and after a few times when I pressured her into sex, I think she may have trouble trusting me now with regards to sex and because she is younger she makes less money and can't drive, sometimes I think she feels obliged to have sex with me because I drive her around and pay for stuff, which I think sucks the romance away. Today we decided we weren't going to see each until our anniversary on the 8th, because the more she pulls away the more I try to cling on which isn't going to work. I love her so much, she's my best friend, I'm pretty sure she still feels that way, she's the nicest girl, I've made mistakes because of my own insecurity I want sex all the time. Do I still have a chance with her? Sorry this paragraph must be pretty disjointed but I can't think straight and I've tried to be as honest as possible, in my own opinon I probably sound quite immature and don't deserve this girl. Any advice would be greatly appreciated and i'll provide updates and try to answer any questions, i just need help!
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