I never go out of my way to find a girl, is this a problem?

[Brady_to_Moss]

When ever i see a beautiful girl, i say it would be nice to be with her...then just move on...all the time..i know one of my best friends always goes out of his way for girls. if the talk to him once...hes all over it and with like 6 girls at a time too....mind you he hasnt had a GF in years just one night stands and i dont want that....but if i dont go out of my way sooner or later...will i miss out on my chance? I just want to meet that special girl.....everytime i look for a girl...i get depressed because i am not with one nor get one.

[bish]

You should never "go out of your way" to find someone. You'll find the wrong person for you if you rush it or come off too needy.

 

Women don't like guys that really like them for some reason. So if you come off that way and are trying too hard, it won't work.

[Yamaha]

U don't try because your afraid of rejection. You need to get over this perfect girl for u and just date and have fun. You will meet lots of different ones and them you can make up your mind if you want a relationship. Girls enjoy a guy who wants to have fun so stop being so serious.

[tanbark813]

With this and other things in life, the more chances you take the more success you'll have. You'll have more failures too but them's the breaks.

[Brady_to_Moss]

U don't try because your afraid of rejection. You need to get over this perfect girl for u and just date and have fun. You will meet lots of different ones and them you can make up your mind if you want a relationship. Girls enjoy a guy who wants to have fun so stop being so serious.

 

 

yea i proablly am afraid of rejection...i am 19 and never had a GF...thats the main problem..i just gotta go out there and have fun

[sid3]

Maybe noticing the not as beautiful ones will add to your options. Yes looks matter to a degree, but how she looks is not going to soley determine how she makes you feel. You can take that to the bank!