jenalisa Posted June 30, 2008 Posted June 30, 2008 I am a 26 year old woman who is utterly confused about men! So, long story short- I am "dating" a guy, we will call him "Joe"; have known him since high school and we tried to date eachother about 2 years ago with out a good outcome, on my part I think. Anyways, I just got out of a long-term relationship about 1 month ago and "Joe" was the first person I called and thought of. He has always been a good friend and treats me with a lot of respect. I had decided that I wanted to try things with Joe again after having a long talk with him about how I feel about him. He thinks that I treat him as "The Last Resort" guy. In other words- I go to him when I have no one else. I beg to differ with him, I have always had feelings for him and I want to try and make things works between us because I have such a good feeling about him and us. But, for some reason, I have the hardest time trying to trust him and believe what he says to me. He has given me no reason to not trust him and I think a lot of what I think is just my intuition (which is usually right) telling me things, so I don't even know if putting in this effort and thought about us is worth it. I spend most of my time thinking, worrying, and analyzinf everything he says and does. I have never acted this way with ANYONE before so it's very strange to me. He even tells me that I worry too much and that I am always looking to far into the future, and that I need to enjoy the present more. I just want to learn to trust him, and for some reason it's very hard. Is this a relationship worth pursuing or should I just give up and let him go?
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