notgoodatthis Posted June 30, 2008 Posted June 30, 2008 This is unbelievable but I'd really like to hear your thoughts. Last Sept, I met a girl who I was incredibly attracted to. She was not a 10 by any means but she was very cute and had a great personality. I fell pretty hard for her as we dated for two months seeing each other virtually every day. We were sexually active and I thought things were great until she went on a cruise with her family and ended up screwing some guy and then breaking up with me imediately upon her return. I guess she really liked this guy. Anyway, a couple months later, she started coming back around and we talked. She basically told me that she got herpes from this dude! I was not going to take her back based on the fact that she cheated and got herpes in the process. All of a sudden, I'm good enough for her now? Yeah, right. Anyway, she lived in my complex so I had to encounter her a lot, especially when it started getting warmer out. We somehow ended up spending time together and seeing each other. I didnt realize that I was again developing feelings for her and it was a little scary. The attraction for her never died and I was trying to find a way to take her back until she stopped talking to me and ended up parading some new guy in front of my face. She was very rude about it and she moved away. We have not talked since and that was two months ago. The thing is even after all the crap she dealt out, I still long for her. I think about her every day and occasionally get the urge to contact her. I won't contact her but I just can't stop thinking about this girl. What's wrong with me? Your thoughts?
stillafool Posted June 30, 2008 Posted June 30, 2008 I think you want her because you feel you can't have her. Be thankful she has moved on to another guy. Herpes is no joke. It is very painful when active I hear and no other girl will want to touch you. She has blatantly disrespected you and try to get over her. Whatever you do don't sleep with her, you will regret it for the rest of your life.
Author notgoodatthis Posted June 30, 2008 Author Posted June 30, 2008 I think you want her because you feel you can't have her. Be thankful she has moved on to another guy. Herpes is no joke. It is very painful when active I hear and no other girl will want to touch you. She has blatantly disrespected you and try to get over her. Whatever you do don't sleep with her, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Thank you! I will probably never see her again. I'm so glad she doesn't live by me anymore
BrooklynBridge Posted June 30, 2008 Posted June 30, 2008 I was not going to take her back based on the fact that she cheated and got herpes in the process. This statement says something, I think you would take her back if she had not contracted herpes and the cheating itself doesn't truly bother you.....
Author notgoodatthis Posted June 30, 2008 Author Posted June 30, 2008 This statement says something, I think you would take her back if she had not contracted herpes and the cheating itself doesn't truly bother you..... Yes, i probably would have eventually but I also know that would be a huge mistake and she would never be trusted again.
stillafool Posted June 30, 2008 Posted June 30, 2008 Even if she could be trusted again, the herpes is a deal breaker. Why expose yourself to a disease, break up with her later on, and live with herpes for the rest of your life.
Shygirl15 Posted June 30, 2008 Posted June 30, 2008 Even if she could be trusted again, the herpes is a deal breaker. Why expose yourself to a disease, break up with her later on, and live with herpes for the rest of your life. I agree to this, she's a cheater not worth your time. Just a quick question to anyone who knows; can someone get herpes if a condom was used?
Author notgoodatthis Posted June 30, 2008 Author Posted June 30, 2008 I agree to this, she's a cheater not worth your time. Just a quick question to anyone who knows; can someone get herpes if a condom was used? They say you can but condom usage along with monitoring and medication, the risk dramatically decreases.
stillafool Posted June 30, 2008 Posted June 30, 2008 I understand that if the disease is active during the time of intercourse you can. You would have to have a partner with it you can trust to let you know it isn't active at the time and still like notgoodatthis says you'd have to use a condom, monitoring and medication.
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