pickingupthepieces Posted June 30, 2008 Posted June 30, 2008 I want to thank everyone for all their advice... when I majorly messed up. I am going to start NC right away.. and keep to it. I have made a big enough ass of myself. He called last night.. and I had to tell him to hang on for minute.. I go back to the phone and he's gone... so I call back and it goes to VM... I think he just got mad I told him to hold on because before that he was going on about how he was trying to get ahold of me and wanted to talk to me that night. Anyways, after that I just thought.. you know what F it... I'm done. He hasn't gotten the messages yet, he will when he goes into work tomorrow.. and I DON'T care... WTF ever. I am not really mad.. just sad that I feel for it all... I believed evrything he said and MAYBE he meant it, but honestly it wasn't going anywhere... SO it is going to be hard.. but I have deleted all my call history so I can't see his number.. I even stuck a note on my phone.. "DO NOT call him" LOL I felt stupid.. but I have to remind myself..because... well it is just SO easy too! I hope that it really is the best thing.. and maybe we can be friends... probably not.. every time I try to it will probably end up like this.... Just tell me I'm doing the right thing.. because as empowering as I feel... I am still so heartbroken...
wareagle Posted June 30, 2008 Posted June 30, 2008 You are for sure doing the right thing! NC is the best healer of broken hearts and I can say that with all honesty! Good for you keep up the positive attitude, it's gonna be hard as hell, but keep the faith!!
justaman99 Posted June 30, 2008 Posted June 30, 2008 The dude is pretty immature if he hangs up whe you just told him to hold on for a sec then won't pick up the phone after. Sorry but he's acting like a little baby. -Just
Peter_pan Posted June 30, 2008 Posted June 30, 2008 The dude is pretty immature if he hangs up whe you just told him to hold on for a sec then won't pick up the phone after. Sorry but he's acting like a little baby. -Just agreed. nc all the way
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