ferio Posted June 30, 2008 Posted June 30, 2008 last thursday my gf and i had a talk and she said the relationship was getting to serious to fast and that she needed a break so we broke up. She told me that while im in germany she would love it if i wrote her and she said she would write back and she also said that after i get back from germany we could hang out and see how we feel. So im confused, like we broke up but it seems to me that we broke up but only to take a break, and that we are more on a break. So im not gonna call or contact her for 30 days, just give her room. During those 30 days im not gonna wait for her and all i can do is better myself and grow as a person. like ive been thinking and even if she called me tomorrow and told me she was sorry and made a mistake i would say that we still need a break because she needs to do something. *****, even though i love her, needs to grow a bit. She needs to know what she wants and she needs to look at herself and the relationship and decide that. Like, i didnt do anything wrong so i cant really blame myself but she needs space right now to think about this, and i cant be mad at myself. If she hasn't contacted me in 30 days then id write her an email about germany and maybe start talking to her again really really slowly, and even though i dont have my hopes up see her once i get back from germany. sure, i still love her now, but i have to move on and grow as a person, and hopefully she will grow too, so that once we talk to each other again she and i can say, wow, you've really grow up some. My big worry is that she wont grow too and that she isnt thinking about this. what do you guys think of this?
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