PhoenixFromTheFlames Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 I need to realize that I will never go back to her and I don't want that kind of woman in my life. And yet, another part of me still wants and desires her. It is tough, and these two mindsets will be at war for a while. Don't be too hard on yourself, it's natural. The only thing you can control is your perspective, and slowly, by degrees it will slowly become the former, and not the latter. You have to want it to change though. We all struggle, but you have to force yourself to accept the situation as it is. Whatever the future holds for you, you have to accept that she's no longer in your life. It hurts, but when you start to let go, you do start to feel better.
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