Brady_to_Moss Posted June 29, 2008 Posted June 29, 2008 Alot of the people that i know wernt even lookin for that person and they just happen to find them at work or such. Does love come when you least expect it? Right now i want a relationships. is that why i cant find one?
KinAZ Posted June 29, 2008 Posted June 29, 2008 Possibly! I know it's happened for me that way. When I'm "off men" because I'm just too busy, that's when you see all the cute guys. Interested in dating again... won't see anything remotely attractive for months. When you're thinking, "oh, that right one might not be out there, I'm just not going to bother anymore." That's when he spills his drink on your arm. Or maybe I jinx myself or something. hahaha Because I do have friends who were actively looking, and found their matches.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted June 29, 2008 Author Posted June 29, 2008 Possibly! I know it's happened for me that way. When I'm "off men" because I'm just too busy, that's when you see all the cute guys. Interested in dating again... won't see anything remotely attractive for months. When you're thinking, "oh, that right one might not be out there, I'm just not going to bother anymore." That's when he spills his drink on your arm. Or maybe I jinx myself or something. hahaha Because I do have friends who were actively looking, and found their matches. haha yea. Ive been looking for months now and nothing...now i just want to focus on my job and setting myself up for the future. I would just really like that right girl though.
trubella Posted June 29, 2008 Posted June 29, 2008 i used to hate that line when i was single, it was always people who were happily involved trying to cheer me up by using that line. but when i met my boyfriend i genuinely wasnt interested in being in a relationship, at that point in my life i had given up on finding a man and was ready to accept living alone and growing old with 9 cats lol soon as i gave up, he came into my life. so in some cases maybe there is truth to it, the less pressure you put on yourself to find a mate the better chance someone comes along, i truely believe that now.
halfarock Posted June 30, 2008 Posted June 30, 2008 Reflecting back I’m pretty sure that every relationship I’ve ever been in began rather unexpectedly.
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