Brady_to_Moss Posted June 29, 2008 Posted June 29, 2008 I go out and have fun. Not bad looking at all. But i havent had a girl have feelings for me in years and years...just dont get it..good guy..pretty confident. I have liked girls before but they never feel the same...maby becasue i seem desperate. I would just really like a girl right now. If i go to place where girls are at and i go in there saying i am the prize that they want...will it help me out rather than second guessing myself? Thanks
Yamaha Posted June 29, 2008 Posted June 29, 2008 I go out and have fun. Not bad looking at all. But i haven't had a girl have feelings for me in years and years...just don't get it..good guy..pretty confident. I have liked girls before but they never feel the same...maby because i seem desperate. I would just really like a girl right now. If i go to place where girls are at and i go in there saying i am the prize that they want...will it help me out rather than second guessing myself? Thanks You need to have confidence but with confidence comes the ability to handle rejection as well. The looks will give you an advantage for attraction but if she senses you as being desperate it will turn her off. Do you come on to strong or are you playful and don't put to much pressure on the introduction? Do they let you be friends but don't want a romance with you?
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted June 29, 2008 Author Posted June 29, 2008 You need to have confidence but with confidence comes the ability to handle rejection as well. The looks will give you an advantage for attraction but if she senses you as being desperate it will turn her off. Do you come on to strong or are you playful and don't put to much pressure on the introduction? Do they let you be friends but don't want a romance with you? I dont come off stong at all...I am not the touchy kind of buy. They see me as a friend just not a BF...i need to change that
Yamaha Posted June 29, 2008 Posted June 29, 2008 I dont come off Strong at all...I am not the touchy kind of buy. They see me as a friend just not a BF...i need to change that To make a girl want you as a bf you have to make her feel attraction for you. That means you let her know you like her in a sexual way ( but don't be a cad ). Get into their personal space a little and try touching them on the arm. Touching is a good way of judging how she feels about u. If she allows the touching or getting close then she is open to more than friendship.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted June 29, 2008 Author Posted June 29, 2008 To make a girl want you as a bf you have to make her feel attraction for you. That means you let her know you like her in a sexual way ( but don't be a cad ). Get into their personal space a little and try touching them on the arm. Touching is a good way of judging how she feels about u. If she allows the touching or getting close then she is open to more than friendship. So is touching a way to see if she is into me more than a friend? I try to do this but i can never come up with a reason to grab her hand or something like that.
Yamaha Posted June 29, 2008 Posted June 29, 2008 So is touching a way to see if she is into me more than a friend? I try to do this but i can never come up with a reason to grab her hand or something like that. IT is 1 way of judging how a women feels about u. Eye contact is also important and her being interested in everything you say. If she is showing you good body language and looks you in the eye ( and you look her in the eye as well ) and is interested and excited to be with you then that is a gal you let know that you like in a sexual way and don't just leave it as friends. She is wanting you to appreciate her a a women and is waiting for you to make a move. If you don't and let her think she is not attractive then she will file you away as a friend, if she likes your personality.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted June 29, 2008 Author Posted June 29, 2008 IT is 1 way of judging how a women feels about u. Eye contact is also important and her being interested in everything you say. If she is showing you good body language and looks you in the eye ( and you look her in the eye as well ) and is interested and excited to be with you then that is a gal you let know that you like in a sexual way and don't just leave it as friends. She is wanting you to appreciate her a a women and is waiting for you to make a move. If you don't and let her think she is not attractive then she will file you away as a friend, if she likes your personality. Yea that has been my problem..well i head back to college in the fall for sophmore year..i am going to try and approach more girls at parties and such. Hey it cant get any worse and the world isnt going to end if a girl says no so why not?
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted June 29, 2008 Author Posted June 29, 2008 When do i know if its ok to touch her in a playfull ear. just by the vibe?
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