serratededges Posted June 29, 2008 Posted June 29, 2008 My ex and I were together for two months only, but due to him falling during a swing dance move where i swing my legs up and he lifts me, but his feet were wrong and he fell and fractured his hip at 21 years old. So needless to say, our period of meeting was two weeks and then I helped take care of him. We were together alot, I am in no way clingy but we both kind of rushed though we were always happy. Then I drove and drank alcohol and drove through a fence while my ex was in the car. I don't remember anything and I have never had that happen. I don't even drive and drink. Anyway, his ex of four years was completely insane, bipolar and schizophrenic, locked herself in his house and then slit her wrists, scarred him up and scared the hell out of him. She used to get belligerent when she drank, so the combination of his parents and friends loving me to pieces (like I am part of the family), did freak me out a bit as well. That is the reason for the breakup, so we are just slowing down. It is actually kind of nice, because now we get to do the fun flirting/dating thing without the quick together all of the time thing. Its almost like we are getting to know each other like we really should of to begin with. I could be wrong as this is the first time I have been dumped, but I am 90% sure that we'll get back together in due time. We are not sleeping together either though if we did it would only be with each other. That ground rule was set after the first bedroom session. I just wanted monogomy without the whole title thing. So though it is kind of a major slow down from what it was, it is solidifying us more than breaking us. I will keep all updated, and hopefully have a semi-happy ending since there is no perfect ending. I am still anxious, but now its more of a (what will happen next, this is the beginning type of thing)
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