pickingupthepieces Posted June 28, 2008 Posted June 28, 2008 I can't stop crying... that's it I just can't THIS sucks.... I feel so low... How does this just sometimes hit you? I even tried calling him in a weak moment.. WTF am I going to do?
kyta Posted June 28, 2008 Posted June 28, 2008 It does happen, felt great yesterday, woke up feeling like hell today, i know she is in weymouth now going to a wedding, we were meant to go together with the kids, i havent cryed today but its not far off, i cant see my future today either, i have been pretty strong the last wk but the last cpl days have been hard as hell, i just feel this great emptyness and loss.
Nevermind Posted June 28, 2008 Posted June 28, 2008 picking: it's a roller-coaster. Can you talk to anybody? Maybe play a game?
foxh1234 Posted June 28, 2008 Posted June 28, 2008 It's normal to feel this way, you are not any different than the rest of us. Ups and downs are all part of this breakup thing. Do things to take your mind off of it, walk, run, watch a movie, read a good book, go out with friends, anything instead of sitting alone and thinking about it. I had been doing great for weeks and then yesterday I had a terrible day. They come from no where and hit us when we least expect it. You will get better, you will be happy again, believe me. Peace
kyta Posted June 28, 2008 Posted June 28, 2008 Thank you, i am feling a bit better now as the day has gone on, i try to focus on the stuff that makes me feel good, but some days i just dont nkow what makes me get to that feeling of, sort of acceptance, but i know im not near there yet, but they are nice days, i try and try to put myself there but just cant ssem to reach it other days. Alot of my problem is myself, i know its my life that has changed and i need to change for me now, but for the last 7 yrs my life was making sure she and the 5 kids had everything, and now i am trying to think of me and it doesnt work, them being happy was what was making me happy, i do have my own interests as well (im not that sad) but for now they really dont seem to have the same draw as b4, feels like if i cant share what i have been doing with her, then seems no point in doing it, maybe i put her to high on the pedastool,.
sultry33 Posted June 28, 2008 Posted June 28, 2008 hi kyta, must be tougher for you as you lost her an the kids.. my ex gets days when his jobs involves kids and i know he feels the pain of loosing them too, more than there natural father does too.. you will feel better but it just takes times.. its a loss and given time you will cope. keep busy, surround yourself with happy people.. my life was him.. him and my kids.. now i have my kids but not him but you know i feel really sad that he has gone, but i tried my best to get him back to our family but he choose not to.. so its his life his decision.. im taking it one day at a time.. i get sad days.. happier days.. days when really i just want to stay in bed.. but i get up.. put on my brave face an cry when im alone. i feel empty.. i feel lost.. but i will get better its life i hope you feel better soon.. come here and talk it helps x
kyta Posted June 28, 2008 Posted June 28, 2008 hi kyta, must be tougher for you as you lost her an the kids.. my ex gets days when his jobs involves kids and i know he feels the pain of loosing them too, more than there natural father does too.. you will feel better but it just takes times.. its a loss and given time you will cope. keep busy, surround yourself with happy people.. my life was him.. him and my kids.. now i have my kids but not him but you know i feel really sad that he has gone, but i tried my best to get him back to our family but he choose not to.. so its his life his decision.. im taking it one day at a time.. i get sad days.. happier days.. days when really i just want to stay in bed.. but i get up.. put on my brave face an cry when im alone. i feel empty.. i feel lost.. but i will get better its life i hope you feel better soon.. come here and talk it helps x Thank you, i do feel better now than i did earlier, you are rite i do miss the kids, i allso worry as she isnt the best parent on the planet, mind you on general overall feelings i am doing ok really, i think this time im more excepting its over, where as before i was allways hoping to get back with her, im not this time, so maybe thats why not feeling as bad as before, only had a few real bad days. I do find coming on ls does help , i allso find days when i read posts it can drag you down a bit, but overall it does help, time is the only healer and us, we have to want to heal, yet we hold on to the pain, its mad all this lol.
inulg Posted June 28, 2008 Posted June 28, 2008 hi kyta, im taking it one day at a time.. i get sad days.. happier days.. days when really i just want to stay in bed.. but i get up.. put on my brave face an cry when im alone. i feel empty.. i feel lost.. but i will get better its life i hope you feel better soon.. come here and talk it helps x i agree. just remember, we're all in the same boat!! you are not suffering alone! we will all get through this rough time together... with LS's help of course!! *hugs LS* i think i would be on the verge of suicide if it weren't for this place.
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