pickingupthepieces Posted June 28, 2008 Posted June 28, 2008 Ok my X and I have been hanging out.. he has begun to get cold and distant... which in turn has left me looking kind of desperate. Many people have suggested I confront the issue.. it is hard because I am not 100% sure of what I want. I cannot be like this though.. I HATE the guessing game... I tried calling and have not gotten an answer (on his cell), because well, its Friday and I know he's out... I saw his car at the local pub... and he's ALWAYS out on Friday. Plus I think he is alittle distant because I think he thinks I want to date him again... I am NOT sure WHAT I want. So I was going to leave this message.. [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]Hey ********[/sIZE][/FONT][sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman] [/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]Thank you for all your help looking for the school report. I was worried! It turns out that my mom had it on her computer, I must have completed it once I got out of the hospital, after I had left. I have printed it off now everything is ready to go. I am so relieved! [/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman] [/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]I did try and call you….I just wanted to apologize if I said anything inappropriate on my last messages… I had just assumed that we had come to be mutual friends. I guess is was wrong of me just to assume.. I did not mean to offend you by any of that. Although I still have feelings for you I never intended to intrude in your life or start dating you again. When we went for lunch I always thought of it as just lunch…. I am happy just being with you… So if I crossed the line, I am sorry. I should not be running to you with my needs. Again I thought it was a mutual thing. [/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman] [/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]If you could do one last thing for me it would be appreciated. If you could get me the copy of my school stuff and the pictures (3yrs worth) from the comp I would appreciate it. You can drop them off in the mailbox, mail them or whatever is easiest for you. I would appreciate them as soon as possible so we can be done with the “returning of belongings”…it has dragged on for so long. I would like to just be done with it so I don’t have to go to you every time I need something. I think that’s why I freaked out about the school stuff so much… because YOU had what I needed and I was terrified that I couldn’t depend on you. Now that it is taken care of I feel SO much better. [/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman] [/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]Thanks again [/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman] [/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]Take care[/sIZE][/FONT] What do you think?
sid3 Posted June 28, 2008 Posted June 28, 2008 I wouldn't send it P. It wil only add to your guessing game.He knows you called. It's his turn to contact you now
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