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I'm not sure if this is more than friendship... (long)


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Hi,

 

I started talking to this girl I have met around 2 years ago in school. Then I was in high school and now I'm in college. We rarely talked to each other during those two years (maybe maximum 10 times) and I asked her and we're both not sure why. I don't know her very much yet because we talked so rarely. She is younger then me (she just finished high school :16 years old (17 in september), I'm 19).

 

We started talking online about a week ago and we didn't seem to stop talking. We have went to bed at around 3:00 in the morning 3 times...

We always had something to say and I really felt like there was something there, so I asked her if she wanted to meet up, she said yes and it was scheduled for today (the 27th). We had scheduled this on the 23rd.

 

On the afternoon of the 24th, we "met" each other online, and we didn't have anything to do that night (which was "Quebec Day", the province's holiday) so I asked her if she wanted to go to the show that there was going to have near my house. She said yes and we went.

 

I picked her up and wow! was she so beautiful! I couldn't remember if she looked that way when I first met her. So from there everthing was good since I started to know her and loved her personnality and loved her looks too :p

 

We went to the "show", which was awful, for about 3 minutes... and then we went for a walk around the park, and ended up eating ice cream close from there. Throughout the whole night, we always had something to say, and it didn't seemed rushed either. While we were eating our ice cream cones, we kept talking, naturally. Then I realised she had almost not eaten her cone, and she said: "That's the longest ice cream cone I've ever had! :D I think I'll have to talk a little less!" or something of the sort. Which struck me, because I then remembered she was pretty shy, even around her friends at school, so she definitely felt comfortable around me.

 

Then we went to her house, but went for another walk near a river. She said she was cold, so I put my arm around her and rubbed her back a bit to warm her up (which I didn't mind at all :p).

 

Before we went back to her house, we stopped walking and just stood in front of each other, not talking. But for some reason it wasn't awkward. We were just looking at each other, almost intensely. xD About one foot distance between us. I would of wanted to kiss her, but I wasn't sure if she'd be ok with it and I wouldn't want it to be weird after, so I didn't.

 

When I brought her to her door, she told me she had a great time, hugged me for about 2 seconds (I did too, of course :p) ,then we said goodbye, and she went in.

 

This whole story was the 24th and our day together was scheduled for the 27th (today).

 

Yesterday, online again, she signed in, we talked for about 1 minute, then she said "For tomorrow, I'm working:S" and then another minute and she was offline, saying she had to get ready for work.

 

What is bothering me here is that she didn't say she was sorry or nothing, and we didn't re-plan another time.

 

I do believe she had a good time, because it was sincere the way she told me the other day, and I know too that she is working as one of her friends (which didn't know we were going to see each other) told me too, that she was working...

 

I don't know what to think... I know I just have to wait to talk to her again, but I don't know if she thinks we're just friends...

Any thoughts?

 

Thanks

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yeah... friendship weirdly:mad:

actually trying to not talk to me even though we've been friends for a while now...

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