iwish Posted June 27, 2008 Posted June 27, 2008 Right most of you know my really rubbish story.. So i wont go into detail.. But i have a new problem.. Next week there is a leaving party for a couple of guys from work. Which i intended to go to. Now one of these guys was with my ex before me (for about 2 weeks) Nothing serious and i don't think they had sex. They split and we got together a couple of months afterwards... Stayed together for just over a year, blah blah... Now here is my problem, my ex used to work here. She used to be part of the company and that's how we met. She has since left the company (about 6 months ago) But for some reason that is beyond me, they have invited her to the leaving do. And from what i've been told she's going to go. Now i'm really peeved because i've told people here how upset i am about the split, she knows how upset i am about the split. Is she that cold that she can just come to my work drinks and act as a complete stranger towards me. Isn't it a bit messed up that she would even bother, i mean she hasn't worked here for ages. I work with them now, they don't hang out together. There is no need for her to agree to go. She must know that i'll be there. Why would she come?!. It's going to ruin my night. Don't get me wrong, i'd love to see her again. I'd love to hold her again. But that's not how it's going to be. It'll be me standing in a corner whilst she has the time of her life with the people i work with. It's absolute bollox.
kizik Posted June 27, 2008 Posted June 27, 2008 Well, exes have to see each other at SOME point. Maybe she justs wants to get it over with. Maybe she thinks by being somewhere you are, it shows she is not bitter. But I don't think you should go to the leaving party. It will be too painful for you. Listen all: it takes much longer for the Dumped to get over a relationship than the Dumper. If you're the former, don't put yourself in scenarios where much of your healing progress can get f*cked with by seeing that person!
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