coffeemaker Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 ...to spend the weekend with her. We had fairly substantial relationship years ago, it was wonderful while it lasted, painful for both of us when it ended. And it both took us 12+ months to sort our our emotions post breakup. Suffice to say, we kept in touch and have remained friends - shocking i know, but given enough time apart (3+ years of living in different cities & limited contact) - its worked for us. Anyway, she just moved to Michigan and invited me up for the weekend. We haven't spent that much time together in 5 years. What the heck, if anything, is going through her head and does anyone else find that just a bit odd??
imbewildered Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 ...to spend the weekend with her. We had fairly substantial relationship years ago, it was wonderful while it lasted, painful for both of us when it ended. And it both took us 12+ months to sort our our emotions post breakup. Suffice to say, we kept in touch and have remained friends - shocking i know, but given enough time apart (3+ years of living in different cities & limited contact) - its worked for us. Anyway, she just moved to Michigan and invited me up for the weekend. We haven't spent that much time together in 5 years. What the heck, if anything, is going through her head and does anyone else find that just a bit odd?? Ah! Let me guess. SHe had some recent relationship breakup or is about to , and is "branch swinging" but BACKWARDS . Or maybe she cant get a date either ,or she is lonely.. She knows you, she also knows how to get her emotional (and perhaps sexual needs met) without all the usual preamble of dating someone else. She can go at HIGH SPEED with you and have the guarantee that you will provide for her needs, GUARANTEED. Go along with this invite ONLY if you are OK with the above and are willing to be her temporary distraction from loneliness, her fun guy, and her attention provider for the duration of the visit. In fact you may even be recruited as "rebound guy" to pump up her ego. ASk her skillfully whether she has recently parted company with a boyfriend. If so, then you need to decide whether you are OK with acting as her emotional support system while she rebuilds her ego.
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