CailinPig Posted June 25, 2008 Posted June 25, 2008 It's weird. This is an internet site and I know that I'm relatively anonymous, but sometimes I don't share details of my break up and my 'relationship' with my ex because I know I will receive disapproval. That's bad isn't it? Maybe it's telling me that my actions are wrong. I already know that though. Does anyone else leave out details here for fear of being judged? Or am I the only one with things to hide?!!
kyta Posted June 25, 2008 Posted June 25, 2008 I say it as it is, no point hiding things, but then i face up what i have done and except it, so no i dont hide anything.
serendip Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 If you are hiding things on an anonymous website for fear of being judged...then maybe you aren't getting proper advice b/c we don't know the details of your situation. If you did something really bad...then you should own up to your mistakes.
critter909 Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 I don't know that I express the true amount of despair I feel about my situation. I'm also a bit embarassed about not being stronger in the face of things and don't want to say out loud the extent of things I would be forgiving him if he came back, and I do want him back (that's embarassing too). Oh hell, it's anonymous. So I think you might as well say what you have on your mind, you may feel a lot better getting it out.
kyta Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 Yes get it all out, be totaly honest, if you can live life that way, life would be much easier, and happier within our selves.
justaman99 Posted June 27, 2008 Posted June 27, 2008 It's weird. This is an internet site and I know that I'm relatively anonymous, but sometimes I don't share details of my break up and my 'relationship' with my ex because I know I will receive disapproval. That's bad isn't it? Maybe it's telling me that my actions are wrong. I already know that though. Does anyone else leave out details here for fear of being judged? Or am I the only one with things to hide?!! The only way to get a full and proper response here about a situation is to tell the truth from both sides. It's like any situation in life. If you tell the story and bend the truth to favor you, of course you'll get a response that will favor your situation. The problem with that is it's an incorrect opinion because the facts aren't there and you won't learn anything. All you will get is a boost to your ego and maybe feel better because people are siding with you although under false or incomplete information. So what's the point of posting at all then if you do this? Don't lead your life this way. I know many that always tell their side of the story and even then it's not the truth. It's BS and a waste of time. -Just
arian_ma Posted June 27, 2008 Posted June 27, 2008 Better to learn from your mistakes than re-make them. No one knows you on here. You may get a bit of criticism, but the community here is great. It's like a very tight family, even though they may judge you for what you did, they will only try to help you with their words, not hurt you. If you want to better yourself as a person, man up, admit your mistakes, learn from them and move on.
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