BobTingle Posted June 25, 2008 Posted June 25, 2008 I have been dating two women for awhile now and I really have strong feelings for one of them. the one I have developed the strong feelings for is a sweet, kind hearted person, a sole mate if you will but she is lacking in the sack. The other women is a party girl, always looking for a good time and a goddess in the sack. Now if I call it off with wild thing to persue a serious relationship with angel the thing that I am afraid of is, I will get bored with angel and cheat on her with wild thing. Any ideas?
Billy Bob Posted June 25, 2008 Posted June 25, 2008 Bob, This is a Seperation and Divorce forum, I think there are some General Relationship forums here on LS that would be better for this topic. But.. To answer your question.... and you already know the answer don't you? Reality is both women don't quite do it for you.. Break it off with Frigid, keep casually seeing Nymph and keep looking for Ms. Right, who will be the right mixture of both.
RollTide Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 For crying out loud!!! You really have a question about what to do? Keep stringing them both along. One of them might find out and dump you, then the choice is made for you. I worry about some of you people, really.
breeder83 Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 how did you go about finding 2 gals that like you?..when I try to be nice to a person of the other sex, I get brushed off (except for a couple of fat girls last year at a new years party we were at)..
Author BobTingle Posted June 26, 2008 Author Posted June 26, 2008 no matter what a women says, they like the bad boy. They say they want to be treated as equals in a relationship but what they really want is to be treated like dirty whores in the bed room. Slapping, pulling hair, dirty talk etc. Outside of the bedroom they want to June Clever and you to be Ward. They want to wonder what you are doing every second of the day so they can go to their girlfriends and have something to talk about and be comforted by them. They want to be told they deserve better, they dont have to put up with it. Truth be told nice guys do finish last. This doesnt mean beat them or be verbally abusive...just be aloof, dont come home when you said you would, dont call during the day, dont listen to her when she talks, use your imagination. Then every now and then surprise her with flowers or a gift she has been wanting, out of the blue. Then go back to being aloof. Women want it both ways. If you are overly nice then you are smothering. Not attentive enough you must be cheating. Not nice enough you are mentally abusive. A catch 22.
Nomad1 Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 Where is the problem/ Keep shagging both, since they complement each other. Not long ago I was seeing 3 women while I was trying to decide which one to have a monogamous relationship with. It was hard because they all had unique qualities. I didn't like doing it though, although I two of them knew about the existence of the others and were cool with it. I was never like that before, until my ex cheated on me. I just don't trust women anymore. I like shagging them though! Nomad1
Billy Bob Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 treat them like this and see which one sticks around!
confuseddd Posted June 27, 2008 Posted June 27, 2008 OMG Hilarious...guess that is just because I am drunk and told hubby how I really feel....we shall see....
Gunny376 Posted June 27, 2008 Posted June 27, 2008 Your story reminds me of one of my Marines He came to me one day and told me he had a problem? What's your problem? My wife told me she was bi? Me: What's your problem? He: She told me she likes women slightly more than men! Me: What's your problem? He: She told me she had a GF! Me: What's your problem? He: She told me she wasn't going to leave me, divorce me, nor leave me hanging ~ that she was going to find me a GF! Me: What's your problem? He: She found me a new GF and moved her in with us! Me: What's your problem? He: My wife and I along with my new GF are all sleeping in the same bed! Me: What's your problem? He: My wife is hitting on my new GF, and the GF doesn't like it! Me: What's your problem? My point? You don't have any problems!
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