ARDriver01 Posted June 25, 2008 Posted June 25, 2008 Hey everybody. My GF and I like to party. Neither one of us can deny a good pool party, bar or show. We're always doing stuff with her freakin awesome friends that have pledged everlasting friendship with me. Just over this last weekend, we've done three pool parties, one bbq, four bars, a softball tournament and some things I can't really remember. Last Thursday, we we're at a place called Howl At the Moon, a dueling piano bar at Universal Studios. We all got really drunk and ended up winning tickets to see Robert Plant and Allison Kraus at the Greek Theater in Hollywood. So, that's what we did last night. The only problem with all this is, when we get back to either my place or hers, we just crash out. I'm worried that we're neglecting the intimate time that we need in order to grow as a couple. I've been getting on average 3 to 4 hours sleep everynight/morning before I have to go to work. I get to work and I'm fine, I just feel all strung out, then we'll get invited to something awesome and we're both like, "Uhhgg... Alright!!! " It's just too much fun, if we continue like this, someones gonna loose their liver or maybe end up looking like Keith Richards. What would be a good way to suggest some alone time together? I'm sure she would be fine with it, I just don't want her to think I'm a drag. I get kind of worried that she might mistake my passing out after a night of hard living as a sign that I don't care about her as much as I should because I don't show it. I can't rightly express myself in this enviornment.
blind_otter Posted June 25, 2008 Posted June 25, 2008 Maybe you should schedule a weekend away together, someplace where it's just the two of you and you can spend some quality time together.
Author ARDriver01 Posted June 25, 2008 Author Posted June 25, 2008 Oh man... She just texted me. She says that we're supposed to do "Hour of Power" tonight. I texted " Uuuhhggg..." and she said, "Hey it's only one hour, after that we can go to my place and get naked". Dude... So much partying. I'm so tired, but its so fun. I need to start taking care of my body. I already feel pretty toxic today.
Keridan Posted June 25, 2008 Posted June 25, 2008 Get out of town with her. Rent a hotel room 30 miles away and take a few drinks and have a couple nice dinners together. Tell her you need fun with just her for a weekend and you can always party again when you get back.
backto1 Posted June 25, 2008 Posted June 25, 2008 Me and my girlfriend partied a lot together for a couple of years and it was all good. I was about 3 years older than her and I got tired of being around her trashy friends all the time. I started going out to bars, she started doing her thing with the girls. We also stopped having drunk sex and would instead just go home and crash out. We eventually broke up because of a lack of intimacy / excitement in the relationship. We had other problems in the relationship but I don't know if they were caused by this party mindset or if the party time was a result of our problems. Chicken or the egg...? Schedule some time away with her and make sure you two are grateful to have alone time. If you stop looking forward to nights where it's just you two alone, you're headed for trouble.
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