is there any hope

[funnyman]

My girlfriend and I of 3 years broke up with me 9 months ago. Ive known her since i was a little kid we lived in PA. When she was 13 she moved to Fl and we stayed in touch for a few years and then we just fell out. That was like 1997 in 2003 I looked her up and we starting talking. Her Mom lives in PA and her dad lived in Fl with her throughout the years. She is 27 and Im 26. So anyway we started talking long distance for almost a year. In that time she came to visit me for 2 weeks and we hit it off big time. After the visit she wanted me to move to Florida. So i took a vacation and stayed with her for 2 weeks. I loved it so I moved down like a month later. She had a house and everything I moved there got a good job and everything was cool. We talked about marriage and everything we had a pretty good relationship with a foundation from knowing each other since we were kids. But there were some problems that I had she would like talk to ex boyfriends like it was no big deal. She said you know they are just my friends and blaza blah. So after about a year of living there it was cool. She looked up this guy who was in jail that she was friends with and wrote him a letter. I said it was ok had no problems. But after awhile they would write letters all the time and talk on the phone ,it got out of hand in my eyes. So anyway she was on vacation visiting family for 2 weeks and i was home alone and a letter came in the mail. I know i was wrong but something told me to open it because she would never read the letters with me it was always like a secret. So i opened it. And this guy was talking **** on me and saying how it was good to see her this and that. She went to go visit him in jail without telling me. So that day another letter comes in the mail and hes saying how he wants to **** her this and that. I confronted her and she was like hes crazy he never talks like this blazy blahh. I said i wanted her to stop talking to him and she refused. Anyway while she was on vacation and before i read the letter i bought her an engagement ring. After the confrontation we argued and made up or whatever, we had some good make up sex. The next morning i woke her up and proposed to her. She said no, because of what just happened and how we just fought how could i propose a day after a big fight. I was just seeing if she loved me like she said she did. So anyway about 6 months later she decided she wanted to go to nursing school full time and not work and she was afraid that in order for her to do that we couldnt make it. So she must of told her mom and her mom offered for her to move to PA and she would help her out or whatever. So we sold the house moved to PA I got my own place like 5 minutes from her school to make things convient. Me and a buddy got a moving truck and moved everything up from Fl to PA. I left a week early because i had a wedding to go to and she was closing on the house. Her mom fly down and drove back up with her. So anyway she gets up here and i go to see her and her and she calls me crying saying we should have never came here my mom is crazy she says that your not allowed to come over. I was like what the **** her mom was always cool with me. But my girlfriend always talked about her mom saying shes crazy thats why i moved to Fl with my dad and whatever. Basically she knows her mom is crazy. So her mom says i cant come there because she doesnt want me to distract her from school. So i was like whatever i have my own place we can just hang out there. So my girlfriend helps me move in buys me all this stuff for my new place, cooks dinner, we have sex the whole shabang. The next day we had lunch had sex and she went home to her moms house. After that she didnt see me for 9 months. We had an agreement that we had weekends to spend with each other. So for 3 months i would ask her to come over on the weekend and she always had an excuse like i have to go shopping with my mom or this or that. So i told her that i was going to go sleep with someone else if she kept putting me through this bull****. It hurt so bad its the only thing i could do. We slept together for 2 years living together now all of a sudden we dont see each other we live 20 minutes away and her school is 5 minutes away. So i ended up sleeping with a girl. She pressured me into telling her that i did and plus i thought we could be honest at that point. So after that we tried to still communicate and be friends and then i couldnt take it. So i stopped talking to her for like 2 months ignoring calls and emails. Finally i called her and we started talking like everyday and things seemed to be cool but she still wouldnt see me. 9 months later her mom goes out of town and she invites me over to hangout and watch a movie. So i did. She wouldnt have sex with me or talk about our relationship. Whenever I ask about working our relationship out she gets pissed like, this is my moms house and this is just how it is like she cant come to my house or something. Mind you her mom is paying all expenses. But anyway we chilled watched a movie i went home. The next weekend her mom goes out of town and i go do some work on her car or whatever and she made lunch and we are hanging out and she asked me if i wanted to spend the night so i did. She still wouldnt have sex with me. So anyway we have been talking for about a month and a half and i asked her why would she invite me up all of a sudden that her mom is out of town and she said that it was the only oppurtuniy she had and that she wanted to see me and hangout and that was it. So anyway she is on summer vacation for 3 months so im like cool now we have time to see each other. And the first thing she does is goes back to florida the day after school let out. We talked like twice a day for a month and a half and the night before she went to florida she didnt call me which was unusual cause she calls everynight. So anyway i feel like if she loved me at all should would of tryed to see me before she went, her old job was going to pay her some good money to come back for the summer. But why wouldnt she at least come see me before she went. She has a sexual problem so I doubt she will be ****ing anyone. Mind you I accepted her for this problem prior to the relationship. Im just so ****ing confused. is it that she doesnt love me or that her mom has that much control over her because she is living there. Someone Please give me advice

[kizik]

Man, shorten this up, a lot, add some paragraph breaks, and I'm sure people will respond.

 

Focus on emotions and not facts, and we'll answer you.