The Collector Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 I've walked away and never returned from 90% of my relationships. I wasn't 'throwing away' X amount of time, I just didn't want any more time in that relationship. Think of your favourite toy as a child -you spent all your love on it for a certain time, then got bored or found a better toy, and you stopped playing with it. Loyalty didn't factor much.
arian_ma Posted June 27, 2008 Posted June 27, 2008 stolenheart, I am in the same place as you. I was doing so well, and saw a picture of her and the new guy on Facebook. I was absolutely destroyed. I have little self esteem left and feel like **** constantly. But I strive on the fact that I will find someone who is never going to do that to me, I imagine the perfect person, and am just waiting to meet her. I cannot wait for the day. Sorry to hear about your situation. I know nothing at all really helps when that "image" of her kissing him comes into your mind right...Nothing can make that go away. Stay strong, stay NC, we will all make it through.
ate_the_paint Posted June 27, 2008 Posted June 27, 2008 arian and stolen...exactly. I just can't let go and just when I'm having a good day and starting to feel confident that I can get over this...blam! For some stupid reason an image of her being all cuddly and sweet with someone else pops into my head....then my day is ruined.
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