xpaperxcutx Posted June 24, 2008 Posted June 24, 2008 All of a sudden, I'm getting asked out by 3 guys? I don't know whether to say yes or no. I've already promised Z I'll see him this Friday, then A asked me if we can meet this weekend, now D is asking me whether I'm free on Thursday or Saturday. What should I do? Mind you I haven't answered A and D yet, but I'm starting to think I don't want to date any of them.
Keridan Posted June 24, 2008 Posted June 24, 2008 Decide what you want. If you like one or two of them, accept the invites. If not, wait for another letter to come along. By accepting a date, you aren't committing to anything. You don't have to turn down A and D just because you said you'd go out with Z. Just relax and enjoy the attention. If/when you get close to one of them, then let the other(s) go. Till then ... don't worry so much.
Sothas Posted June 24, 2008 Posted June 24, 2008 It's just a date, nothing exclusive so go with each of them and have fun. If it feels like you're overwhelmed then cancel on one of them if you have to. Just be honest with them, if they ask if you're seeing anybody else tell that you've been dating but nothing serious, the truth. Like Keridan said, if you feel yourself getting close then let the other ones fade away. Have fun! -Sothas
Shygirl15 Posted June 24, 2008 Posted June 24, 2008 You can go out with all three of them, then decide from there. You'll be in a better position to to know which ones to 'write off' after your dates, I'm sure. However, you may want to space out the dates a little bit..
Lizzie60 Posted June 24, 2008 Posted June 24, 2008 All of a sudden, I'm getting asked out by 3 guys? I don't know whether to say yes or no. I've already promised Z I'll see him this Friday, then A asked me if we can meet this weekend, now D is asking me whether I'm free on Thursday or Saturday. What should I do? Mind you I haven't answered A and D yet, but I'm starting to think I don't want to date any of them. Well as long as they're not on the same night.. I say go for it.. what's to think about? Go see which one you like best.. and if you can't decide.. keep them all.. just tell them (only if you want or if they ask) that you are not exclusive.
Cov Posted June 24, 2008 Posted June 24, 2008 Go see which one you like best.. and if you can't decide.. keep them all.. just tell them (only if you want or if they ask) that you are not exclusive. I think xpaperxcutx has slightly more class than you Elizabeth, but that is indeed one option. I'm sure the guys who are pursuing her will keep their options open.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted June 25, 2008 Author Posted June 25, 2008 Well as long as they're not on the same night.. I say go for it.. what's to think about? Go see which one you like best.. and if you can't decide.. keep them all.. just tell them (only if you want or if they ask) that you are not exclusive. That's great advice.. I'll try to stretch out the dates so they're not on the same days.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted June 25, 2008 Author Posted June 25, 2008 Decide what you want. If you like one or two of them, accept the invites. If not, wait for another letter to come along. By accepting a date, you aren't committing to anything. You don't have to turn down A and D just because you said you'd go out with Z. Just relax and enjoy the attention. If/when you get close to one of them, then let the other(s) go. Till then ... don't worry so much. Yeah I know. I really like Z, A is okay, but I don't feel anyting with D.
D-Lish Posted June 25, 2008 Posted June 25, 2008 I think that's great! It's a good feeling when so many guys show interest! I'd say just go with the flow and enjoy dating. I know it's hard to warp your head around it when you're feeling low- but it's quite fun to just play the field a bit. Have fun babe- you deserve it!
imbewildered Posted June 25, 2008 Posted June 25, 2008 All of a sudden, I'm getting asked out by 3 guys? . Go for it, take what you can get. The next drought may be just around the corner.
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