Wonder125 Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 I have been looking through this website and have yet to find a topic that is about the one I will discuss. First of all, everyone on here is looking for advice on what works best for each sex (Male or Female). Now what should be known is that not all males are alike and neither are females. So, with that being known, there is not universal strategies that will lead you to success with either species. I believe that you FIRST have to identify who you are dealing with. For instance, you would not use the same strategy on Paris Hilton as you would on Eva Mendes. I am using hollywood people as an example because we all know them. When you first meet someone you really have no idea if you are dealing with a Paris type or Eva type. The only thing you know is that they are both attractive and you like them. I have flat out asked some girls what they are looking for and to be honest they all LIE, well most of em. One girl came up to me, gave me her number, told me she wasn't looking for a relationship ad I said ok. Then I came back and said "so you are into just looking to hooking up and having fun?" She also said no to that. Am I the crazy one here? I am wondering what are some good signals that we can all be aware of that will tell us what type of girl we are dealing with ? Cause I believe we must categorize someone in order to plan our moves.
BrooklynBridge Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 I've always seemed to observe that girls with tattoos are typically quite slutty. Especially the one's with the above-the-a$scrack tattoo. Those who don't appreciate my observation, respond and quote in 5.4.3.2.1.............
Calisto Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 They might tell you they are looking for a relationship, but they have gone out with you and spent a little time with you,and they realize they don't want a relationship with YOU. Or, maybe you've made out a bit, and they decided they didn't want a relationship with you. This doesn't mean they just are looking to hook up, this just means they hooked up once or twice with YOU and decided that you weren't the guy for them. So...they really weren't lying at all. Cheers.
Calisto Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 I've always seemed to observe that girls with tattoos are typically quite slutty. Especially the one's with the above-the-a$scrack tattoo. Those who don't appreciate my observation, respond and quote in 5.4.3.2.1............. Eh, I don't know about that. Personally I hate tattoos on anyone but a lot of women I have met were going through the "I'm rebelling against my parents by getting a tattoo" stage and are really not as you have observed. I have a lot of girlfriends like this.
Tomcat33 Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 I am wondering what are some good signals that we can all be aware of that will tell us what type of girl we are dealing with ? Cause I believe we must categorize someone in order to plan our moves. Rule # 1 if you must have a rule, STOP categorizing women get to know those that will allow it and make an educated guess, and move on from those that are not interested and don't waste your time wondering why if they are not into a relationship you can't you poke them instead. Because it is their body and they say so, that's why. Rule #2 if you must have a rule, women are not cattle that you can just herd into groups and send them on their merry way so devote your time to those that seem worthy and don't waste your time on those that aren't.
bayouboi Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 So, with that being known, there is not universal strategies that will lead you to success with either species. hehe species
Trialbyfire Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 I have flat out asked some girls what they are looking for and to be honest they all LIE, well most of em. One girl came up to me, gave me her number, told me she wasn't looking for a relationship ad I said ok. Then I came back and said "so you are into just looking to hooking up and having fun?" She also said no to that. Am I the crazy one here? She's not lying. There's a zone called dating, somewhere between a relationship and being an eff buddy. It's possible it could go to either one of your examples, reliant on how you treat her and how she perceives your actions.
pandagirl Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 I have flat out asked some girls what they are looking for and to be honest they all LIE, well most of em. One girl came up to me, gave me her number, told me she wasn't looking for a relationship ad I said ok. Then I came back and said "so you are into just looking to hooking up and having fun?" She also said no to that. Am I the crazy one here? I am wondering what are some good signals that we can all be aware of that will tell us what type of girl we are dealing with ? Cause I believe we must categorize someone in order to plan our moves. First of all, I think any girl who discloses information like "I'm not looking for a relationship" at the same time she gives you her number MIGHT be a little crazy. Anyway... Good signs: Most "normal," intelligent, and kind women are confident and live their lives, without making their dating life or relationships an obsessive priority in their life. Look for a girl who is comfortable in her own skin, who acts like she doesn't have anything to prove, she has good friends and good people surround her, has a career, and in general happy with her life. Bad signs: Women (and people in general) who immediately disclose personal information about their past relationships, psychological problems, deep dark secrets, or any dramatic overtures, are all signals that she may or may not be a little "evil." She's a bad drunk: red flag. Watch how she treats other people from her friends to the waiter to the bartender or the taxi driver.
carrotgirl Posted June 24, 2008 Posted June 24, 2008 She's not lying. There's a zone called dating, somewhere between a relationship and being an eff buddy. It's possible it could go to either one of your examples, reliant on how you treat her and how she perceives your actions. In my experience this is a very American ideal, this dating area between together and not together. I think the "I'm not looking for a relationship" in this situation is code for: I'm not going to pressure you for a serious attachment right away. I want to keep my options open until I've found "the one". I'm willing to see if you and I are compatible. Carrot
Balthazar Posted June 24, 2008 Posted June 24, 2008 I've always seemed to observe that girls with tattoos are typically quite slutty. Especially the one's with the above-the-a$scrack tattoo. Those who don't appreciate my observation, respond and quote in 5.4.3.2.1............. I will agree with this observation. I met a young American lady in Glasgow a few years ago with an "Insert here" tattoo above her crack. Her instructions were simple and straightforward. I followed them to the letter.
Tomcat33 Posted June 24, 2008 Posted June 24, 2008 I will agree with this observation. I met a young American lady in Glasgow a few years ago with an "Insert here" tattoo above her crack. Her instructions were simple and straightforward. I followed them to the letter. Ewwww that's nasty. You and 500 others. Some tatoos are definitely trashy on women though some are really cool and tastefully done so if the tatoo is trashy looking then clearly it is an extension of who the person is. In my experience this is a very American ideal, this dating area between together and not together. I think the "I'm not looking for a relationship" in this situation is code for: I'm not going to pressure you for a serious attachment right away. I want to keep my options open until I've found "the one". I'm willing to see if you and I are compatible. I agree.
Balthazar Posted June 25, 2008 Posted June 25, 2008 Ewwww that's nasty. You and 500 others. WHAT? You know Dorothea? No really. She was much too young to have been with 500 other guys. And the tattoo wasn't completely in plain sight. But it was explicit....
MalachiX Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 WHAT? You know Dorothea? Dorothea! That's her name. One of my friends was asking about her (the one guy in the city who hasn't hit that). Out of curiosity, do you know what her schedule's like. Last time I spoke to her, she said she was backed up, no pun intended, for the next few months.
Citizen Erased Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 I've always seemed to observe that girls with tattoos are typically quite slutty. Especially the one's with the above-the-a$scrack tattoo. Those who don't appreciate my observation, respond and quote in 5.4.3.2.1............. I have no difficulty accepting that. Quite alot of slutty girls I know have that. And no people, when they are around your arse crack, they cannot be done tastefully. The moment I stopped liking the band HIM was when I saw some fat woman with a heartagram above what I assume was her arse crack under the flab. Not a pretty sight.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 I've always seemed to observe that girls with tattoos are typically quite slutty. Especially the one's with the above-the-a$scrack tattoo. Those who don't appreciate my observation, respond and quote in 5.4.3.2.1............. Not all women who have tattoos are slutty.. I have piercings, but I don't go around sleeping with every guy on the street.
gfto Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 there is not universal strategies that will lead you to success with either species. Yes, there is. You simply have to figure out whether she is INTERESTED in you. (It isn't difficult to figure out.) If she is, then just make her laugh, respect her, be affectionate, and use the word "no" once in a while, and you'll be good to go. If she isn't interested in you, forget about her and move along. This applies to Paris, Eva, and your next door neighbor. (I don't even know who Eva Mendes is.) As for the girl who gave you her number and said she wasn't looking for a relationship, she most likely just wanted to hook up with you. But, when you went back to her and asked her flat out if that's what she wanted, it completely turned her off and you were out.
Prodigal Princess Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 I've always seemed to observe that girls with tattoos are typically quite slutty. Especially the one's with the above-the-a$scrack tattoo. I've always seemed to observe that men, with or without tattoos, are typically quite slutty too.
porter218 Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 I've always seemed to observe that girls with tattoos are typically quite slutty. Especially the one's with the above-the-a$scrack tattoo. Those who don't appreciate my observation, respond and quote in 5.4.3.2.1............. Um..I have a tatoo on my lower back above the arsecrack. It is a kanji phrase meaning " The virtue of a promise, oath or vow"..does that make me slutty:confused:? lol And about the girl at the bar that wasn't interested in a relationship...you blew it with that RETARDED question. She probably was game, until you opened your mouth with your foot already in it.
Balthazar Posted June 27, 2008 Posted June 27, 2008 Dorothea! That's her name. One of my friends was asking about her (the one guy in the city who hasn't hit that). Out of curiosity, do you know what her schedule's like. Last time I spoke to her, she said she was backed up, no pun intended, for the next few months. Backed up! That's preetty good!! Actually her schedule is tight(sort of), but I am sure she can fit it in- uh, I mean fit you in....
KinAZ Posted June 27, 2008 Posted June 27, 2008 When I've told guys that I wasn't looking for a relationship, it was usually because I wasn't interested. I can't see giving my number to a guy and then telling him that I wasn't looking for a relationship, unless, after we talked, he seemed clingy or something. I might not be interested in anything serious, but that doesn't mean I'm looking for a "good time" either. To some people, simply dating is actually fun. I think it's funny that tattoos were mentioned as the first sign of being slutty. I have a number of tattoos and a few piercings, and I certainly wouldn't place myself in that category. I got my tongue pierced when I was 18, thought oral was gross, and no... I hadn't tried it and didn't plan on it either. I was 15 when I got my first tattoo, and hadn't even kissed a boy yet (because I wasn't old enough to date yet, and I was very obedient). While I didn't feel like I was rebelling, I guess it's most likely that I was asserting my independence or something.
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted June 27, 2008 Posted June 27, 2008 I've always seemed to observe that men, with or without tattoos, are typically quite slutty too. Prodigal Princess 1, BrooklynBridge 0
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