hotpinklove85 Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. I have known him for about 9. We went to highschool together and were friends with the same people. I love him with all my heart yet I feel like we are headed down a dead end road. I have never cheated on him or lied to him about anything. He started to get uncomfortable that I hung out with my friends alot. So I didnt go out as much. We now live together (for 2 1/2 yrs) and although we have talked about Marriage, he hasnt made the move. I feel it is because he wants to see what else is out there. He doesnt tell me He loves me anymore, or that he thinks I am beautiful and claims he doesnt say these things because its out of character for him, yet he talks to other girls this way. Although I dont believe he has cheated on me, he hides things from me. Friendships with girls on myspace, and Even Women at work. I had even caught him talking pretty racey with one about 4 months ago and he stopped (or so he says) We fight about alot lately, and I just want everything to work out. I started hanging out with my friends because I feel that I need them in my life. Is this relationship over? Is there anything I can do to save it or is it pointless to try? Please help
Author hotpinklove85 Posted June 23, 2008 Author Posted June 23, 2008 I have told him how I feel, Sorta. He says he Loves me, he just doesnt really ever tell me and it seems that when we are out with our friends he doesnt even know I am there. I find myself acting really jealous and I think that pushes him away. I just cant help it, its how I feel. How do I approach it? I want to tell him without him getting upset, yet I want to get my point across.
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