trubella Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 I just needed to vent a little, My bf and I have been dating for 6months now. everythings been ok except the distance takes it toll on us- we're 1 hour apart, along with our busy schedules and the high cost of gas has limited our visits to weekends only. even with that being said, we havent had sex in two months, needless to say i'm just a LITTLE frustrated. he will be be leaving next thursday for a 1 month trip to Serbia(his home country, to visit his family and to attend his cousins wedding) this will be the 1st time we've been apart so I've been trying to arrange atleast 1 or 2 nights free together but his work always seems to get in the way. he said he would be able to tomorrow night but now he tells me thats a no go due to work. im starting to feel like last priority to him, i dont think he understands how important this is to me=/ all im asking for is 1 measly night. not only am i paranoid about him leaving but i probably wont get any before he leaves either, atleast not an all nighter lol.. smh i dont know. im a little annoyed with him about cancelling last minute, kindof giving him the silent treatment at this point. i know sometimes its out of his control but i really wish he couldve tried to take off early, try something..anything.. i dont ask much of him.
AriaIncognito Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 I can sympathize with your situation. While I'm not in a long distance relationship, I am seeing someone who is very, um, career focused I'll say, and it leads to basically us just seeing eachother over the weekends. I tend to be the kind of person that wants to see their SO as often as possible, and it definitely makes me feel like I'm not much of a priority when I just get to see him on weekends. So, I feel your rant, I do. Wish I could fix it for both of us, but I can't.
Author trubella Posted June 23, 2008 Author Posted June 23, 2008 Why haven't you had sex in two months? it seems like we never have the time to even stay together for the night, he works alot, doesnt live alone, i have my son and my cousin AND her kid now living with me . so privacy is nonexistant. which is why we talked about going to a B&B for a night or two before he leaves.. not sure thats gonna happen now.
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