xpaperxcutx Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 This friday, I have a date. It's so weird, because its been months since I went out and actually had fun with a guy. My last date ended up with me having depression for a week because the guy didn't call me back. So I'm hoping this time around I can actually hold on to my sanity and not freak out ( if you know what I mean). Let's call the guy Z. From what I know about him, he's 24, single, and a filmmaker to-be. His hobbies include mountain biking, filmmaking, playing music, and going to bars. Supposedly he's in a band.. so he's quite ambitious. He's 6'1 compared to my 5'3 frame, but I love a guy who's taller, it makes me feel safe. Z sounds very out going, and from the phone call he made to me last time he sounds very cute. Of course I know what he looks like, he's pretty buff, and looks like one of those frat boys type. He's from Wiscousin, and me being a city girl, this is the one time I've actually dated a midwestern boy. So what exactly are my apprehensions? FALLING TOO FAST!!!!!!!!! I'm bringing my girlfriend along.
Adamagnet Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 Supposedly he's in a band.. so he's quite ambitious. That's an interesting assumption... So what exactly are my apprehensions? That he's like a frat boy. I'm bringing my girlfriend along. Why?
Calisto Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 So you think that everyone who lives in the midwest lives out in the boondocks or something?
tanbark813 Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 I'm bringing my girlfriend along. This is one of the most annoying things a girl can do on a date.
Balthazar Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 This is one of the most annoying things a girl can do on a date. Yep. I second that. Extremely annoying. I mean, you are over 18, aren't you?
JohnnyBlaze Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 This is one of the most annoying things a girl can do on a date. Agreed. He won't be himself. Instead of letting you get to know him better, he'll be focused on not doing anything that'll red flag him with your friend. He won't be that outgoing guy that you want to date. Not only will you not get to know him, but it's a huge sign of mistrust right off the bat; a lot of guys won't want a second date if they think they have to jump through that hoop again, no matter how great the girl is. Just leave her behind this time. If things go well with you and Z, he'll meet your friend soon enough anyway.
I am who I am Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 If you have to bring a girlfriend with you, make sure she's single, and tell him to bring a friend along. Who knows, maybe your friends will hit it off too. No plans with the other 2 guys that asked you out? Have fun this weekend!
Jilly Bean Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 X - Im surprised you are planning on brining a chaperone. Doesn't seem like your style, girlie... Go alone, take a deep breath, and just take this as a simple meeting. You don't need to add pressure by thinking this has to be the start of a long romance. Just view it as meeting someone new and getting yourself back out there.
Shygirl15 Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 So you think that everyone who lives in the midwest lives out in the boondocks or something? :laugh:
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