Surfer Girl Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 Has anyone else been torn by the push pull efect of ex.... Seems he has this hold on me that I keep going back to only have him after so many months either go back to ex.. or feel trapped... Can you say commitment phobia... I am trying so hard to get past this... Can anyone help me move on... Because the hurt is really taking a toll... Not sure I can take this anymore... Why am I so naive to beleive he wants me and is crazy about me in the beginning only to leave me once again after 4 months... Please help.. I need to move on....
df273 Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 Give us some more insight. Why have you broken up in the past? Why has it not been resolved? Is there trust in the relationship?
Trialbyfire Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GpMOEEs9PY0 I've always found this song to be inspirational in stepping down from drama. It's "Sick Cycle Carousel" by Lifehouse. Listen to the words.
df273 Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 That is a pretty good song, and kind of motivational as well.
Trialbyfire Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 It is. In essence it's telling you that you're the only person who can make it stop. It really does take two, to make it work and even then, not necessarily. How much crap are you willing to put up with before you walk away?
berny72 Posted June 24, 2008 Posted June 24, 2008 it seems like a bad relationship! if you have some selfsteem get out of there quick!
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