alphabetsoup13 Posted June 22, 2008 Posted June 22, 2008 Original Story can be found here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t154085/ I got this via facebook message, here is a quick recap of our story: 1) First loves and HS Sweethearts together for 3 years, feelings for each other for many years prior 2) Different colleges, left me for a guy that lives in her dorm 3) Found out about the new guy by signing into her facebook account and she was pretty pissed when she found out but apparently it's "ok" now. 4) NC for a month "hey i just wanted to let you know i forgive you for signing into my facebook and stuff. i'm sorry things turned out the way they did and there's a ton of things i want to say to you about everything but i dont think its needed right now. maybe we'll be able to talk some time. anyways i really hope you're having a great summer, im not expecting a response to this, i just saw your email apologizing again and realized i had never told you it was ok. have a fun summer!" I don't want to respond but will i come off as bitter if i ignore it?
kizik Posted June 22, 2008 Posted June 22, 2008 Nope, just ignore it. Don't worry how you come off; it's none of her business anyway.
northstar1 Posted June 22, 2008 Posted June 22, 2008 Original Story can be found here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t154085/ I got this via facebook message, here is a quick recap of our story: 1) First loves and HS Sweethearts together for 3 years, feelings for each other for many years prior 2) Different colleges, left me for a guy that lives in her dorm 3) Found out about the new guy by signing into her facebook account and she was pretty pissed when she found out but apparently it's "ok" now. 4) NC for a month "hey i just wanted to let you know i forgive you for signing into my facebook and stuff. i'm sorry things turned out the way they did and there's a ton of things i want to say to you about everything but i dont think its needed right now. maybe we'll be able to talk some time. anyways i really hope you're having a great summer, im not expecting a response to this, i just saw your email apologizing again and realized i had never told you it was ok. have a fun summer!" I don't want to respond but will i come off as bitter if i ignore it? Ignore it. She's made herself pretty clear - not much point in responding to it, despite how much you may want to. You may also want to delete facebook man - it's nothing but evil for relationships and ex's.
Author alphabetsoup13 Posted June 22, 2008 Author Posted June 22, 2008 Ignore it. She's made herself pretty clear - not much point in responding to it, despite how much you may want to. You may also want to delete facebook man - it's nothing but evil for relationships and ex's. I don't want to respond, and she deleted me from her friends list a long time ago and i never try and look at her profile anyways.
df273 Posted June 22, 2008 Posted June 22, 2008 I agree. Ignore it. If you want to continue to move on, let it go and ignore it. If you want to get her back, responding will not guarantee it. The way i look at it is, if she wants you back, she will msg you again.
sparktonSS Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 Who cares if she will think you are bitter?? I hope you dont care...
critter909 Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 Aren't you bitter??? Ignore it! who cares what she thinks now
iwish Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 if you respond what would you say? And if you don't want to respond then don't. You owe her nothing. Do what's best for you.
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