ICS Posted June 22, 2008 Posted June 22, 2008 I recently had my eye on a girl online. Her profile seemed genuine, with a picture of her and a description mentioning that she wants to find real love for once, and isn't very picky about money or looks. She emphasized that it would be nice to know who she is chatting with, but even without a picture she would want to get to know whoever messaged her. On Friday night I emailed her telling her a little about myself and attaching a picture as well just because I have seen hers and thought it would be fair for her to know who I was too. She emailed back on Saturday night with a positive reaction and said she recently moved from a small city and is now living downtown. In her email she expressed to me that the big city can be so spooky for her sometimes, and that she wants to hangout with me sometime soon to see how compatible we are. At this point I was quite happy, emailing her back to arrange for something next week. However, her next message made me a little confused about who she is.. In her message she asked if I was available to chat on msn now, and that she could meet me anywhere, but suggested a local coffee shop. She also gave me a link to her homepage. On that page were two pictures of her (one of them I have already seen, the other one was her in a two piece bathing suit). Also on her homepage was a blurb about her wanting to hang out with someone and having them show her around the city, as well as a request to ask those wanting to talk to her to sign up for an x-rated dating site with a link to her profile and her cell#. The part that confused me was...She asked me to call her if I liked what I saw because she is selling her computer in a few hours. I am not sure if this is relevant; but in her first email she told me she was barely able to pay her rent. What am I getting myself into? By the way, she explained that she wants people to meet her via the x-rated site because it asked for verification, which helped her ensure that they were real and weren't playing games with her. I checked the site and this was true since it asked for a picture-based text verification to be inputted, but it can't safeguard against anything except spammers...
ABrokenWing Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 sounds a bit fishy to me. I am new to online dating and if things like that poped up I'd prob walk away in the other direction. That being said, if you are still interested in this girl, I see no prob with you meeting her someplace PUBLIC for coffee or something.
johan Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 I think this is one situation where following your instincts is the obvious way to go. It almost sounds like a scam.
Crestfallen_KH Posted June 23, 2008 Posted June 23, 2008 She isn't very picky about money or looks? And she wants you to sign up at an X-rated site to chat with her? We call those "prostitutes."
mrblue Posted June 24, 2008 Posted June 24, 2008 I think it is a scam or maybe she is a x-rated star . will just follow your gut feeling. hehehe maybe you can score we that woman. just kidding
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