austin28 Posted June 21, 2008 Posted June 21, 2008 This is my first post so here it goes. I met this girl from school around two months ago. She was friends with my firends girlfriends so I went over to her house a couple of times just as a guest. Eventually we started talking and she would make sure to greet me and smile at me in school. At the time she lost her cell phone and so I relied on her friends to hang out. We wound up seeing eachother every weekend at numerous parties having a blast each and every time. We would wind up hanging out more than with are friends. Dancing, partying, talking, the whole nine. She would always give me her full attention, would butt into my conversations with other people just to answer what I was asking or to help me with whatever I needed. School let out and there was a end of the year party, I had the greatest time ever with her. She finally got a cell phone and she gave me her number. I texted her a bit but we never set anything up. She was also delayed in sending messages back. She also called me the other night because she thaught she saw me driving in the car ahead of her. It was kind of weird. I had my prom last night and I saw her (she's a year younger than I so she wan't attending) I just said hi and she waved but went straight to one of her girlfriends and started talking. i'm pretty sure it was akward as i was with my date and so on. However my feeling for this girl are so strong and I'm driving myself crazy thinking she's trying to avoid me. I'm not very experienced in the dating world. I was always a shy guy, but as of late this has completely changed. I think I might make her feel like I'm acting desperate and I don't want that. I told her that we should go to the beach this Monday and she said yeah. we've been trying (or at least I've been trying) to go for the past month. I just feel weird. She hangs with two other guys from school often but they have been friends longer then I've been with her. I don't think it's anything serious. I'm probably just letting my emotions get the best of me, but do you guys think she's playing me? When I call her on monday to go to the beach, if she has something else to do, should I reschedule or will that make me sound desperate? How many times should you call a girl per week? This is a confusing time for me. She is the most gorgeous girl both inside and out that i've ever met. I don't want to screw things up for me. It would hurt. I appreciate any responses, I'm usually pretty well thought, but my mind is jumbled right now. I've talked to friends and family but I need some outside advices.
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