Lost&Confused85 Posted June 21, 2008 Posted June 21, 2008 I was with a great women for 3.5 to 4yrs but I lost it when I decided to move back home from college to start my career. She even gave me a choice of living with her and i turned it down now I regret that decision.So my problem is that she said that seeing was seeing another man and I hate that because she was my first and I had to go through so many hoops just to be with her. From A to Z you name it and I had been through it with her.So the guy she is seeing is 28 and she is 23 but that really didn't tick me off it was the facebook and myspace. WHich I was addicted to. So I ran a check and found all of his stuff and the guy is worse off than me but it made me mad that this guy was with her only because i live so far away. During this time I am still courting her in order to salvage the relationship but her friends have been telling her that I was not good for her since sliced bread. So I try to talk to her but she never calls me and I have to make the contact. But I was on facebook and saw new pics after I had just tried to talk to her and she did not pick up but pics went up on the website. So last night i got mad and left a nasty voice mail because the guy apperantly has a kid and an ex-wife and the clap. It was all on his myspace and I felt she needed to know and I was a little drunk. So she called me today but i didn't pick up and Don't know what to say the usual i love never works. I am hooked on here and have been date less for the last 7 to 8 months. I never cheated on her. I just decided to make money inorder for me and her to have a better life while she is going to grad school but that backed fired and now i am trying to get her back but don't know what to say. PLEASE HELP ................
sparktonSS Posted June 22, 2008 Posted June 22, 2008 First off...GET OFF MYSPACE. Seriously. Second...how far are you two apart? Third...so he has the clap, now she has the clap. Do you want the clap? No, you dont, so you cut your losses and move on. Fourth...she obviously does not want to talk to you much at all, if she never calls you. She is with another guy now; time for absolutely no contact whatsoever and that means even no myspace contact.
kladia Posted June 22, 2008 Posted June 22, 2008 Myspace/facebook always put things in the worst possible light. I'm no stranger to postbreakup facebook rage. Defriend her. Who posts that they have the clap on myspace? That's just weird. Anyway, she's seen his myspace and his facebook if you have. These things aren't exactly secrets. Time for no contact methinks. If it's meant to be, she'll be back. If it's not then we can cry in our beers together until someone better comes along. What helps is swear you'll go no contact for a month. After the long, arduous 30 days, it gets MUCH easier, and your head will be much clearer so you can make better decisions about what to do next. Promise.
df273 Posted June 22, 2008 Posted June 22, 2008 I would agree with both of those replies. Hang in there.
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